as someone who has made it to 34 and still doesnt want them, its okay to change your mind and it was still wrong of her to invalidate your past feelings and wishes.
2025-07-19 16:25:56
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Johjli :
I doesn’t matter what people say, either you want kids or not is your personal decision, you’re an adult and can make decisions for your future as you see fit. It’s okay to not want kids, it’s okay to want them and it’s okay to change your mind! Don’t let women with or without kids tell you witch grass is greener, you’ll grow your own garden and you choose which flowers you want or not!
2025-07-21 10:07:02
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tyler :
goddamnit i hate when she’s right 😭😭
2025-07-21 07:00:22
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maghdalin :
Also for some context: I am 21, I do not plan on having kids for literally 8 years at least (IUD🙏) so this is not a pressing issue at all just something I’ve been thinking about and a funny bit. ALSO, my mom is lovely and never really “pressed” having children upon me but it was always an assumption bc she’s of an older generation. I know that if I change my mind in the future she’ll love me endlessly no matter what and treat my dog & cat babies as her grandbabies <3!
2025-07-20 18:20:48
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Quincy 🍯 :
I was on the fence with having kids in every relationship until I met my husband. I think some people definitely know they don’t want them and that’s great, and some people think they don’t want them because they’re scared of who they might be raising them with
2025-07-19 16:31:33
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Ares 𖤓 :
I used to not want kids at all and now I want them but I do NOT wanna give birth. 😭 I'll probably surrogate or adopt/foster.
2025-07-19 15:15:30
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Idk :
NAAAAH CUZ IT HASN'T EVEN BEEN THAT LONG AND HE HAS ME ON A CHOKEHOLD❗️❗️
2025-07-21 15:08:12
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seoyeong_26 :
Nah I got a husband who also doesn’t want kids either🤗
2025-07-19 17:55:31
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Pita Pan :
Thankfully I love and want my partner waaaay more than I want kids, I KNOW we would argue about parenting every single day
2025-07-21 06:20:04
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cambria :
this but simultaneously being horrified of pregnancy and childbirth
2025-07-20 04:00:59
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Ali :
Lmao looking at my daughter rn after my mom telling me the same thing for years 😭 I swear I didn’t think I’d ever change my mind but I’m so in love w this lil baby
2025-07-21 11:26:47
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kindnessprevails_ :
It’s because you found someone you could imagine yourself parenting with!
2025-07-19 15:30:50
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🦋 :
DONT you dare put this energy on me i REBUKE and he doesn’t want kids either so im chilling
2025-07-20 06:46:19
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Val :
After finding the man for my life I want kids even LESS 🤣 why would I waste a good life for a toddler
2025-07-20 09:14:00
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Certified Disaster :
Not me though. Y’all stay safe
2025-07-19 23:25:19
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Dasani Man :
I used to hate kids...then my mom gave birth again when I was 14 and I see this little boy growing up and I'm like 😭❤️❤️Never gonna be pregnant though I'm just gonna hire a surrogate in my 40s or wtv
2025-07-21 00:43:37
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samantha ˘͈ᵕ˘͈ :
i want them but world is bad💔
2025-07-19 16:35:48
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eren yeagers bitch :
was vv conflicted cus he doesnt want kids and i didnt either but dating him made me want to have kids BUT i know if anything happened to him i wouldnt want to be a mother by myself ??? i think its just cus i want them only w him😭😭
2025-07-21 03:36:18
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Lucy <3 :
Me and my bf agreed when we first got together that we NEVER want kids and now we talk about it being a possibility when we are in a stable financial situation 🫢
2025-07-21 14:42:06
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alex ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
i JUST redownloaded this app after three months.
2025-07-20 21:13:47
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Brittneymesser🤓 :
even before I met my bf now I dont want kids I wanna be the fun auntie but everyone said "oh your young you will change your mind" but I genuinely dont want to have my own kids not bc ibdont think I wouldn't make a good mom but because I want to live a life where I work and become rich😝
2025-07-21 13:37:19
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buttered.pickles 🆘️🇺🇸 :
I've been with my bf 2.5 years, I love him to pieces. I still dont want them 💙
2025-07-21 00:47:27
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KAY9 :
You want the experience of raising kids not the experience of birthing them. Fostering and adopting is superior anyway
2025-07-21 00:05:26
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__8888dc777 :
Yeah, this is my dilemma rn. Never wanted kids before but he would be such a good dad but I’m selfish and want him all to myself and be able to do things whenever and travel wherever and yeah lol
2025-07-21 02:39:52
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Lidka Swędrzyńska :
nah im even more sure that i dont want them kids cause why would i waste my time on them when i have him by my side😭
2025-07-20 21:25:20
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