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This is what I would tell my 27-year-old self. The longer you stay in the story that this is happening to you, the longer you will stay stuck in infertility hell. It’s not your fault this happened. But it is your responsibility to shift how you respond. When you live in victim mode, repeating thoughts like “Why me,” “This isn’t fair,” or “I’ve done everything right,” you unknowingly hold yourself hostage to the pain. And I get it. The world makes you feel powerless. Doctors give you little hope. The treatments fail. The charts don’t make sense. Your body doesn’t feel like your own. Of course you want someone to fix it, to save you, to give you a plan. But no one is coming to rescue you. You are the rescue. You break the loop when you ask different questions. Not “Why me,” but “What is this showing me?” Not “What’s wrong with my body,” but “What is my body asking for?” Not “What am I missing,” but “What am I avoiding or afraid to feel?” Victim mode keeps you in a pattern of fear, obsession, overthinking, and resentment. That energy is dense. Your body feels it. Your cells hold it. Your nervous system repeats it. This is not about toxic positivity. This is radical responsibility. It means noticing when you are spiraling and choosing to stop the pattern. Even if you have to do it fifty times a day. That’s the real work. That’s what opens the door to healing. If you are ready to step out of the loop and back into your power, drop a “I’m ready” in the comments. You were never broken. You just got stuck in a story that was never meant to define you. Let’s Do This Together 💚 Monica #findingfertility #monicacox #fertilityhealthcoach #ivfsuccess #pregnantnaturally #ivfdiet #infertilityawareness #fertilityawareness #fertilitydiet #infertilitydiet #unexplainedinfertility #highnkcells #autoimmunefertility #fertilityhealthmatters #ttc #ivf #infertilitysucks #infertility #autoimmuneissues #fertilityjourney #ttcjourney#ivfjourney ⁠⁣⁠⁣⁣#thisiswhatinfertilitylookslike #thisiswhatinfertilityfeelslike ⁠⁣⁠⁣⁣⁠#secondaryinfertility #miscarriageawareness #earlymiscarriage #pregnantnaturallyafterivf⁠⁣⁣⁠ #functionalmedicine #functionalfertility
This is what I would tell my 27-year-old self. The longer you stay in the story that this is happening to you, the longer you will stay stuck in infertility hell. It’s not your fault this happened. But it is your responsibility to shift how you respond. When you live in victim mode, repeating thoughts like “Why me,” “This isn’t fair,” or “I’ve done everything right,” you unknowingly hold yourself hostage to the pain. And I get it. The world makes you feel powerless. Doctors give you little hope. The treatments fail. The charts don’t make sense. Your body doesn’t feel like your own. Of course you want someone to fix it, to save you, to give you a plan. But no one is coming to rescue you. You are the rescue. You break the loop when you ask different questions. Not “Why me,” but “What is this showing me?” Not “What’s wrong with my body,” but “What is my body asking for?” Not “What am I missing,” but “What am I avoiding or afraid to feel?” Victim mode keeps you in a pattern of fear, obsession, overthinking, and resentment. That energy is dense. Your body feels it. Your cells hold it. Your nervous system repeats it. This is not about toxic positivity. This is radical responsibility. It means noticing when you are spiraling and choosing to stop the pattern. Even if you have to do it fifty times a day. That’s the real work. That’s what opens the door to healing. If you are ready to step out of the loop and back into your power, drop a “I’m ready” in the comments. You were never broken. You just got stuck in a story that was never meant to define you. Let’s Do This Together 💚 Monica #findingfertility #monicacox #fertilityhealthcoach #ivfsuccess #pregnantnaturally #ivfdiet #infertilityawareness #fertilityawareness #fertilitydiet #infertilitydiet #unexplainedinfertility #highnkcells #autoimmunefertility #fertilityhealthmatters #ttc #ivf #infertilitysucks #infertility #autoimmuneissues #fertilityjourney #ttcjourney#ivfjourney ⁠⁣⁠⁣⁣#thisiswhatinfertilitylookslike #thisiswhatinfertilityfeelslike ⁠⁣⁠⁣⁣⁠#secondaryinfertility #miscarriageawareness #earlymiscarriage #pregnantnaturallyafterivf⁠⁣⁣⁠ #functionalmedicine #functionalfertility

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