@bethradulski: Neurotypical traits are seen as the default, so when neurodivergent people communicate differently, we’re often seen as rude, unstable, or even dishonest. We say what we mean, and somehow that makes us less trustworthy? Meanwhile, neurotypical people are praised for diplomacy—even when it’s just polished dishonesty. We don’t get the benefit of the doubt. We’re questioned, second-guessed, excluded from decisions. Overlooked for leadership roles and promotions. It’s not that we’re not trustworthy—it’s that the system trusts masks more than honesty. Normalize different forms of truth. #Neurodivergent #Ableism #neurodiversity #psychology #autism #adhd #audhd #MentalHealth #mentalhealthmatters #autistic
Dr. Beth (Neurodiversity)
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Saturday 19 July 2025 14:18:31 GMT
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Celadore :
The very idea of "performing honesty" should be an oxymoron. Society is exhausting
2025-07-19 16:46:24
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Christina White :
This is why I'm scared of situations that I have to prove my innocence because the more honest I try to be the more people think I'm being dishonest
2025-07-19 15:20:32
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channelzero522 :
Masking as you call it, is just a script, and once you can tell a person is just going by a script, nothing they say is valid anymore
2025-07-24 11:36:52
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Maddy🙃 :
I NEED MY SIDE QUESTS
2025-07-19 15:16:50
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Ian :
THIS! THIS! THIS!
2025-07-19 17:46:09
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Kelsey🌹 :
yessssss!!!
2025-07-23 04:48:54
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Dr. Dante Assad, PSY.D. :
Preach!! 👏
2025-07-21 23:11:56
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Sei-kyoku :
it's funny because they are being dishonest and disingenuous ALL THE FKN TIME but they were able to turn the narrative against ND people. which of course they would. because they are dishonest and disingenuous.
2025-07-22 14:42:04
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The Vedic System :
why wouldn't you make this savable
2025-07-24 00:52:36
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Val🌻📚 :
So this is why ohhhh 🤔🤔🤔
2025-07-19 14:29:40
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thewizardofcompton :
facts
2025-07-20 01:38:38
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Mia :
Love love love
2025-07-19 14:24:47
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Mo :
this is so funny because in my whole life people tend to believe me more when I'm lying than when I'm telling the truth. in other words I should become a criminal just to not get arrested, right?
2025-07-20 03:00:22
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TizzyB Meg 🧿✌️🌎💫🦋🌈 :
Relatable! Unfortunately. I finished my MBA, but have had a consistent special interest in neuropaych and systems. Learned I was AuDHD neurotype during my MBA. Considering a PhD concentrating on ND friendly business, ND system design, or OrgPsych. My question for you is, would you recommend your PhD program? Did you like it?
2025-07-19 14:59:30
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Dr. Beth (Neurodiversity) :
Has this ever happened to you? What interesting observations did you make if/when it did? 👀👀👀
2025-07-19 14:22:35
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Sadie :
My doctor treats me like I'm lying about being neuro diverse because I explain it poorly and struggle to structure it in a linear way
2025-07-20 13:52:44
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Teacups :
I had a customer the other day who had brain damage and he told me that before we interacted. Part of my job is taking statements and during his statement he went through everything like even how dry his sandwich was. I’m so glad I got him because I’m sitting here like “no yea I’ll wait”
2025-07-19 15:40:36
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Jen :
In my 20s, pre-diagnosis, I was called down to HR because my supervisor thought I was “untrustworthy”, because I didn’t make enough eye contact with her. I had to explain to the HR rep that prolonged eye contact was uncomfortable for me for reasons I couldn’t articulate or understand. 10 years later I was diagnosed AuDHD and it was like “oh, that makes sense.”
2025-07-19 15:34:22
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lynzea :
this finally answered the question I've been asking for years. why does no one seem to believe me??
2025-07-19 15:30:18
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Glitched Stitcher :
Took a long time to realize this.
2025-07-19 16:21:09
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Desthro :
Sounds like an opportunity
2025-07-20 12:37:27
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Kouklitzasou👩🏻🦰🧡 :
Happened to me sooo many times!!
2025-07-19 15:48:42
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Emma🪝🍃🏴☠️☠️🦜🚩 :
I have actually written documentation showing that memories don't always follow a linear narrative. When someone recalls events out of chronological order – especially during questioning – it’s not a red flag. In fact, it often reflects how real memories work: they’re triggered non-linearly through emotional or sensory sub-memories in the brain. That’s neurobiologically consistent with truth – not deception.
2025-07-20 10:22:43
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空 :
I really wish your videos were downloadable. I like keeping ones locally instead of bookmarking and hoping they don’t get pulled. I know I could use apps to download them, but have other issues with that.
2025-07-23 02:04:37
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Us er :
Funny because I’m completely unable to lie, like my friends can immensely tell when I’m lying. But people who don’t know me always think that I’m lying because of the way I ‘lag’ mid-sentence, stumble on words, think before answering,…
2025-07-20 19:24:29
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