@mentalhealness: Stop asking narcissists what you did wrong to them #narcavuse #narcabuse #narcissism

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prqueen1030
Puerto Rican Queen :
My ex left me alone in an emergency room, because I commented on the purple shoes the doctor was wearing. Mind you I commented to my husband not the doctor. He left and when I called to ask where he was, he said “B, don’t ever comment on another man” 😳 so glad I threw him out.
2025-07-19 16:36:45
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stoneybrewer
StoneyBrewer :
I feel like on the next level of this. I ask him to confirm his a pos. I’m on his trail and he knows it
2025-07-19 18:57:46
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saffy_1409
saffy_1409 :
Omg literally I couldn’t be nice to anyone not even a head nod
2025-07-25 15:11:22
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dakotahgaylenevarner
Kodav2012 :
almost every other day I was literally texting my husband "are we good?" "are you mad at me?" "do you love me?" "is there someone else?". there was always something in his behavior that made me question everything.I had been through multiple infidelity,all types of abuse,everyday was eggshells just for me to tell him I couldn't live with 1-2 "good days". that the life we had wasn't normal.i left him after 12yrs,still trying to finalize the divorce after multiple love bombing attempts just for him to find a new supply and move her in 4 days after asking for marriage counseling to get his family back. he also lost his kids because of his addiction and abuse.
2025-07-19 16:54:37
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realiseyourworth
RealiseYourWorth :
his reason was because I wore a bit too much make up or i had a low cut top on or because I spoke a bit too long to a friend or because I took longer in the bath than usual 🙄 so glad I walked when I did
2025-07-19 21:43:33
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katrinabrattonhughes
katrinabrattonhughes :
I stopped caring why he was angry all the time 😂.. it was very liberating , and divorcing him gave me so much peace .
2025-07-29 04:42:53
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mxrzgxrzrant
marz :
our last argument before she discarded me, she was making ME to blame for something that was 100% her fault. I kept asking over and over again to show me where I messed up and I never got an answer and I made the mistake of pointing things out cause now there “was” a reason
2025-07-19 19:57:01
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queen.sif
Queen.Sif❌️ :
I was asked to change but not given what I need to change. I honestly don't know what he is so hurt about. he is giving me the exact narcissistic responses... I'm not playing anymore
2025-07-19 17:33:53
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lilia_fxxxxo
Lilia Fxxxxo :
Never feel sorry Period ,
2025-07-22 20:14:42
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bi.ma.ca
Bi.Ma.Ca :
Yes bc it’s them that did wrong to others
2025-07-19 17:38:53
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shhmota1
shhmota :
They will say “you should know” or they just make up a crazy reason just to move the bar, literally rollercoaster of crazy
2025-07-19 17:54:38
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bonitaholmes
bonitaholmes :
I stopped asking what did I do wr,and just started saying that I haven't done anything to you. Because I know I didn't do anything wrong, it was just a form of control he wanted.
2025-07-19 17:05:49
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kuronichii
Kuronichii :
do you happen to know how someone acts as a narcissist abuse survivor? because ive lashed out lately and its terrifying that I turned into one as a survival technique
2025-07-20 04:24:50
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tee28__
Tee🌸🌸 :
I really felt a victim of this word 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣but never again .
2025-07-19 16:44:25
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cornholebag
cornholebag :
My ex used to get mad that I wouldn't help unload groceries from his truck. full knowledge that I wasn't supposed to be lifting anything.
2025-07-19 17:48:39
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ladyj4452
ladyJChef🌈bi :
Only this you did was BE YOU...
2025-07-21 00:34:08
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mystylemyway.co
MyStyleMyWay.co :
A narcissist thrives on control, validation, and maintaining a superior image. When you ask "What did I do wrong?", you are inadvertently giving them: Opportunity to blame and reject - Give them supply and a chance to rewrite HISTORY… THE REWRITE HISTOEY IS THE MAIN AMO THEY WILL USE YO CONTINUE THE CYCLE OF BAD BEHAVIOR.
2025-07-19 16:42:50
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tanjafroh
Tanni :
I breathed wrong, no joke ☝🏽🙄
2025-07-19 22:34:48
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ashalina272
Ashalina 🥰 :
Not only that but , stop telling them anything at all that they can use & twist as the thing “you did or said wrong” tell them a story about your day or your past, anything. They will use it and make up their own story.
2025-07-21 06:02:58
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kb_sosweet
The Dark Light 🌖🌗🌘🌑🌒☀️ :
🤦🏽‍♀️😱 how have I never thought of this?
2025-07-19 16:37:54
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motherhood_wife
Alicia | Motherhood Lifestyle :
Shit! I done that asking that and yup all makes since now
2025-07-19 16:34:18
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91bigpressure
91BIGPRESSURE :
Mannn you sholl ain’t lien ‼️
2025-07-26 12:36:21
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raisingqueenssa
RaisingQueensSA :
truth
2025-07-19 17:18:57
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jennbwoo
Jae Woo :
Just stay away from these people. Family or not.
2025-07-19 17:11:32
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cottoncandy71186
SarahS1986 :
They can’t answer the question with an answer that makes sense
2025-07-19 22:00:52
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