@valerie_inez: Spirit will tell you whether that person is for you or not. And most importantly, your body will continue to respond to that answer.

abbymartinez :

I'm on year 2 of trying to walk away from a 14+ year relationship...I am struggling, exhausted and don't recognize who I am... this is a vicious pattern of trying to break ties and then getting stupidly hopeful and reconnecting...and the physical pains I'm developing are getting overwhelming. I got told just yesterday that I'm going through a "functional collapse" because I'm still showing up for others and obligations, and I'm little miss quiet, calm and gentle...but on the inside, I feel like I'm rage screaming and no one can hear me..