Tori Cleans
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Sunday 20 July 2025 15:37:58 GMT
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madelainerenea__ :
Create an index of resources (inventory) for her, if she struggles with resource guarding having an inventory of what she has will help her process and let go of what she doesn’t need. It’s a slow going thing, don’t give up ❤️my respect for respecting her wishes.
2025-07-22 03:08:39
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cathryn.a :
You’re doing the right thing for grandma by taking it slow and involving her in the process!
2025-07-20 15:43:05
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Fur Mom :
I had to do this with my mom and I live over 3 hours from her. I’d purge her stuff like she wanted, and towards the end she would make excuses to put them back. Then I started taking the bags and stuff with me home to donate. Still it would pile up, until one day we got into an argument because of the distance and time I was giving, and the fact the stuff was now on the baseboards. The statement that worked “You share a wall with the neighbor, so it one thing to let your home burn, it’s not fair to your neighbor, what did he do to you?” It’s bee years and I can walk into her house and don’t have to move piles over to sit.
2025-08-02 11:27:06
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user1532880250768 :
It’s better that she trusts you making the cleanup decisions. If you list that trust you most likely would not be able to work on the house. The progress is slow but the relationship is strong.
2025-07-21 14:46:45
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“Fairy tale” :
Where is part 2 of kitchen clean
2025-07-31 14:52:22
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drreeeaaa :
Ppl saying this don’t understand hoarding is a disease and is not easy to cope with.
2025-08-02 16:01:33
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Lori Beth :
I need a reality show on this ❤️
2025-08-01 05:59:37
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marcy_kayy :
dealing with this with my mom. her home is condemned to be demod because she wouldn’t lose the stuff. lost the other to foreclosure and is now living with me in the last house (and filling it already). sad and stressful- wishing u better luck!
2025-07-23 00:20:41
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Catherine :
keeping her involved will help reduce a risk of relapse in the horde. plus people have to realize if you go behind her back she wont alow you to continue.
2025-07-22 01:29:44
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meghan🌱 :
I’m not even a horder but if someone threw all my stuff away “for my well being” I would be SO upset about it. I can’t imagine if that happened to someone whose mental wellbeing is attached to what seems like “meaningless” objects to others.
2025-08-01 03:25:50
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Juliana :
you are doing the responsible respectful way.
2025-07-21 17:52:44
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s y d ✨🤎🪐 :
so proud of your journey and how you are honoring her wishes
2025-07-22 19:15:44
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SLBSween :
Seriously I don’t know how you do it. 🤔 professionals need to be called in.
2025-07-21 21:45:10
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gyngerale!8435 :
if it means saving what she feels she needs to see in order to go through the rest this is absolutely the way to go.
2025-07-30 22:08:10
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Robin Hensel :
Just keep going. You never know what you will find.
2025-07-22 20:32:28
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Emily R :
Throw it away now and stress her out or just wait and help her through the process while she’s still alive…?? What a crazy concept. We moved my grandparents to assisted living. It’s already agreed that the house will stay as is until they pass. We all have our mementos but everything else will stay until the time is necessary. Y’all are amazing grandkids
2025-07-24 21:37:02
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Syndi Wallace Jones :
Be true to yourself AND HER!
2025-07-24 00:48:37
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John Brockenwitch :
You are doing great and doing the right thing
2025-07-22 12:35:32
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MoonFire :
Thank you for all your doing for her
2025-07-21 15:25:04
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purplelifechronicles :
If she's in a home none of this stuff matters. Making it harder this way.
2025-07-22 17:22:13
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BlessedMom98 :
I think the feeling of just going thru things that are kept, showing&allowing Her that process will make Her happy. because what you're doing is for Her health, happiness and well being.
2025-07-21 13:09:20
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Lizzete :
Hi Tori, I hope you are taking care of your wellbeing through this because I was once there and still am. It can drain you. Take care.
2025-07-31 05:33:57
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thank you for making her still part of the process, it's hard.
2025-07-21 21:48:29
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libertarianchick :
lot's of people don't understand hoarding they need to watch hoarders on ae
2025-07-22 03:43:19
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user5740227324378 :
My sister cleaned out my parents carport without their knowledge or permission. (Not even close to this level) The emotional wake left behind is not worth it. Its extremely disrespectful.
2025-07-31 23:08:20
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