I absolutely felt the same! I remember the precise moment at a friends house everyone was having a good time and I was sitting inside with my son just me and him bc it was too much going on outside I didn’t feel comfortable with him being out there and me trying to watch him every second. Also do not ever feel bad for how you parent your child, just let those comments roll off your back. If that’s how they parent their children that’s great but you do not have to change your parenting style. The people telling you to relax probably do not have a child with a food allergy so it’s easier for them to say those things. Just know it gets better! Things constantly change and as he grows you will come to find some things get easier and some things have different challenges. Each step though gets easier and slowly you find your footing and yourself again I promise 😉
2025-07-21 01:36:59
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Eve Al | Anxious Mommy :
I’m the same way. I don’t care what people think though. I’m going to watch over my child bc I’m their mom and have their best interest at heart. I gave birth to her and no one has the right to tell me to be careless.
2025-07-22 02:50:33
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jalisamedina :
I feel the same exact way momma ! 😭 I’m trying to make more friends but I feel like I’m not up to date with everybody else. my life revolves around Noah 🥺
2025-07-20 21:57:38
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Sam Morillon :
Totally relate mama, you’re not alone🫶🏼
2025-07-20 18:56:22
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Nurse Dye🩺🩷 :
I relate and the just relax comments they enrage me bc I’m just watching my kid! God forbid! But same I have like 3-4 friends and we see each other a handful of times in a year and one just moved away..
2025-07-20 19:44:34
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Dee :
Me yesterday 😭 I went out to a work weekend event with my kiddos and I regretted it. Was the only one with kids and just felt like I should have just done something at home with them. Left after less than 2 hours there.
2025-07-20 19:18:26
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Megan :
I’m hoping it get easier as well. Sahm to a 16 month old boy and feeling all the things you’re mentioning. No advise just wanted to say you’re not alone
2025-07-20 20:42:01
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Alyssa_Lynn :
I feel like they have a kind of survivors bias. Like they can’t remember how much danger there really if for a toddler with no fear, they just know they raised their kids and the kids are alive. You’re doing everything right, are suppose to let him eat a battery😂😂
2025-07-21 21:54:38
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Madi Bell :
Follow your gut! You’re a good mom for keeping an eye on your baby! I totally relate to this
2025-07-21 01:46:39
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Jaimebeth :
I had a child before any of my friends. It was so lonely. Then you start to isolate and it’s so hard to keep friendships. Now my friends are mostly parents of my kids friends- just based on proximity not much else.
2025-07-20 20:22:44
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Jessica Kilgore :
That age where they are still figuring out walking but have no fear is alot! You have to be watching them! Especially if you have a kid that likes to put small things in their mouth or gets into to everything 😆
2025-07-21 14:43:09
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G girl :
Girl oh my gosh!! Yesss I feel you one million percent!!! You are me rn!! I think about things all the time when I leave… did I talk enough? Too much? Was I being too protective?
2025-07-20 18:56:31
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Naj B :
It gets easier!!! All of us go through this ❤️
2025-07-21 01:21:04
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maqij :
I think most parents can relate and you should not feel lonely or bad for feeling it. You are self aware. I can assure you, If you have a second child, it will feel so much different.
2025-07-20 21:06:38
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aidakbl :
Just do you.
2025-07-20 20:42:01
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Sammi :
Totally feel this!! Told my husband I just rather be around family these days
2025-07-20 18:58:32
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epk275 :
Don’t take to heart comments or “advice from people who have never taken care of a baby or child. They don’t know what they don’t know
2025-07-20 22:21:27
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Liz 🫶| no niche content :
Yep me too 🥺
2025-07-20 20:49:18
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Gissel :
No but same I’m just trying to make sure he’s okay all the time and don’t want him to get hurt 😭
2025-07-20 20:35:25
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graceclb :
Ugh you’re literally so unavailable you leave and wonder how two hours has passed and if you even talked to anyone and you feel like time out is useless
2025-07-20 20:51:03
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Lee Lee :
Also super lonely!
2025-07-20 21:01:23
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c :
This time wont last forever but I know what your saying I felt the same way when my boys were small.
2025-07-20 18:55:00
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Sabrina <3 Future Bodybuilder :
Babe I GET IT! This is me to a t 😭💕 it’s a phase, our kids will grow and we’ll be more relaxed eventually. Everything is dangerous to our little ones at this age 😭
2025-07-20 20:07:06
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Melissa Love Yolitz :
Meeee🥺🥺🥺
2025-07-20 21:00:10
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