@justray.ray: Plus i talked to someone about how I was feeling once. Instead of them being there for me they called in a wellness check. Then never addressed it again. So I keep it to myself. Sometimes I just want to talk about my feelings. The past has shown me that not everyone is trustworthy. #trauma #friends #family #Relationship #talking #venting #tired

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birdboxygurl
Bird :
It’s sad I talk to internet strangers more than my own family. Like my sibling has no clue about me. Mostly she’s self centered narc. Met and told a stranger my story. They comforted me unlike my own family. I’m too sensitive and over emotional 🙄🙄
2025-07-20 23:58:05
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blacklezprincess
blacklezprincess :
it’s like, we missed the part when people became super close to each other and now it’s so hard to develop that when everybody else already has it with somebody else
2025-07-20 22:48:40
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lore.jmp
Lore :
I feel the same exact way. I started taking more solo vacations.
2025-07-21 07:53:42
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_seabreez_
Sabrina :
I don’t have anyone either and when I actually reach out to them it’s silence. Now I’m mad at myself for even trying.
2025-07-20 22:49:13
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courtney___rose
Courtney_Rose :
I totally 1000 percent understand
2025-07-20 22:44:29
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musichart4soul
musichart4soul :
It's simple family and/or friends have proven untrustworthy.😔 silent = listen. You may not have told them any of problems but something they did/said that you were watching that showed you they are not to trusted.
2025-07-21 00:22:33
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justlilolme8
K💜 :
Except when I’m supposed to be casually socializing and I find myself telling my entire life story. 😅
2025-07-21 00:21:17
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stormyafterall
Stormy :
So I’m gonna respond to each of your points like my therapist did me.. because these are 1000000% things I’ve said hahaha #1 let people make their own decisions about the capacity they have to make time for you. You are making the decision FOR them by talking yourself out of reaching out
2025-07-20 22:51:36
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buttercup_poetess
Amoridere :
Real. 😞
2025-07-20 22:51:15
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whytho025
Why tho :
Gurllll!!! That ending , is exactly how I feel lately. I exist to work and that is it. Chasing weekend to weekend to be able to melt into my comfy chair and not be bothered
2025-07-21 00:19:01
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frogilady
Frogilady :
I do the same thing. I always feel like a burden.
2025-07-21 01:54:33
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livngdeadgirl13
LivngDeadGirl13 :
I feel this so much.
2025-07-21 00:50:02
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stormyafterall
Stormy :
#2 if you care about them and they care about you- you are not a burden.. that’s just what your brain tells you. Possibly past trauma (that’s my reason) allowing ppl to show up for you is good for both you and them. The more you do it- the easier it gets! My therapist literally had me make a list of ppl I could call bc I was certain I was “overusing” my support system and I’d check off when I leaned on someone and go to someone different the next time
2025-07-20 22:55:01
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stormyafterall
Stormy :
#3 the feelings/emotions you feel are HUMAN therefore- “I don’t want them to see me that way” you don’t want them to see you as human? Because we all have struggles. When you put it that way- it sounds silly right? Call them folks! lol
2025-07-20 22:56:20
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stormyafterall
Stormy :
Remember social media is a highlight reel.. many of them married folks ain’t happy and lmsome folks who own homes are house poor. Comparison is the thief of joy. And depending on what you’ve been through sometimes just existing is something to celebrate there were days when I didn’t think I’d make it to this day. There were some days that I didn’t wanna make it to the next day yet I’m still here. Set small goals and celebrate the milestones! I’m 39, single, & desperately want to be a mother… sis we gotta take life one day at a time.
2025-07-20 22:59:23
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rainontheroof9
Rain 🌧🥀 :
Betrayal ptsd club member reporting for emotional support 🙋🏽‍♀️
2025-07-21 00:23:10
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