@elysiaberman: Also it’s not a moral failing to make an irrational purchase. I think we need to move on from this goal of moral purity and always making the “right” choice. We’re human, that’s impossible! Just do your best 75% of the time, even 50% of the time— and that’s good enough. #shopaholic #shoppingaddiction #shopping #nobuy #nobuyyear #lowbuy #shoppingtips
The scarcity mindset also 100% applies to vintage items because they actually are kinda scarce and maybe something you won’t find again. Taken me to long to have a semblance of rationality when it comes to second hand purchases because of this 🥲
2025-07-21 08:38:32
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evilyn :
I feel like its more addictive to shop when you’re broke cause we’re engaging in risk-taking behaviour and with buy now/pay later, we have a guaranteed win and the dopamine rush is doublefold - instant gratification and we get the item that plays into our fantasies. When you have the money and saved for it, there’s no risk or thrill. Scarcity mindset can apply to money too “i only have a small amount of money right now - i need to get something good before this money inevitably disappears”
2025-07-21 10:07:58
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Diosa Caprichosa :
Since watching your content, I’ve made a big effort in buying quality items that will lasts and are more versatile on my collection and remembering that there will always be stuff to buy when I need something or truly want something. Thanks for that!
2025-07-21 00:26:23
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Gabs - Thrifty Finds :
After regular going to the goodwills bins I can tell you overconsumption is awful, there’s so many things in the world, you can always find it again. I’ve found items I miss again and again on apps! 💗 It’s okay to say no and wait!
2025-07-21 00:55:35
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Lea Walker :
I have my direct deposit split up appropriately between checking/savings and then only have a little extra in checking attached to my atm card. That way IF I really want something I wasn’t planning on I literally need to transfer the money over. Which is easy enough to do in a pinch on my phone BUT makes me consider the extra purchase enough that 9 times out of 10 I realize I don’t really need/want the item. Also I’m lazy so it slows me down 🤣
2025-07-21 15:36:47
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chelsea 🐝 🇨🇦 :
I really need a new purse but I have you (is it quality, is it giving quiet luxury? Is buying quiet luxury giving into the fascism?! - you haven’t actually said this 😂) and Caleb Hammer, all in the back of my head. You’re being nice. He is not.
2025-07-22 13:14:39
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Cody Smith :
the scarcity mindset had me in a CHOKEHOLD!!!!!! It drove me to make purchases that today I would find nonsensical but hey, live and learn!
2025-07-21 01:33:21
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The Bumpy Life :
You’re like Yoda for compulsive shoppers. Appreciate your wisdom to help change behaviours and cut through the negative looping thoughts.
2025-07-21 02:33:31
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Silvia Fortunato :
You know also the sad thing is? If your work in sales you’ll get reprimanded if you don’t push and obtain multiple sales from one customer. So the employee will be very frustrated. But it’s not ethical at all. Goooooooood!
2025-07-21 11:05:00
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ally 💫 :
ugh I love this as someone who’s been eyeing their first expensive bag
2025-07-21 00:23:08
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Foggy Cat Feet :
so true! I primarily shop online. I got into bc they NEVER had my size at the store, for anything! 😑 It had its pros and cons...I got really good at just telling if something will fit me or not, and least I could see my total before I checked out. I had things no one else had....🤣
2025-07-21 00:28:38
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Claire Heidi :
I totally made an irrational purchase yesterday. I ordered a Johnny Was haul. I have been anxious and it was definitely a reaction. I will wear everything I got, but I don’t like why I bought it.
2025-07-21 06:58:27
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Lisa R :
Really good advice!
2025-07-21 00:36:37
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Kylie :
Yesss love this! It’s so easy to get swept up in that feeling and mindset. Also, your skin is glowing!!
2025-07-21 01:59:03
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charmed.ivy :
I take a picture of it to get rid of the scarcity. I tell myself I'll go look for a different version if I have a picture of it. and then I have never actually gone and bought it
2025-07-21 02:05:30
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AH154 :
I love this 👏
2025-07-21 07:17:35
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lovie 7350 @c👑 :
well said 🥰🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-21 01:05:28
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Salmonete23 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-21 07:05:49
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