Im the same way but everyone takes things soo personal now a days instead of checking up and asking
2025-07-22 14:03:49
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_JoscelynKultgen_ :
NO one understands and thinks i’m being a bad person/friend. Im sorry i can’t give you all my energy when i don’t even have enough to get through my day 🙏
2025-07-21 15:55:11
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styxx<3 :
it’s only toxic when you don’t communicate that, just randomly ghosting people who care about you tends to lead them to worry or think badly about themselves making them think “what did i do?”
2025-07-21 16:22:06
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Shelbie ☆ :
I think it's only toxic if you don't explain yourself to your friends and just ghost out of nowhere and expect nobody to worry about you, it's one thing to communicate you need time apart, it's another to just dip without an explanation.
2025-07-21 20:50:56
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🤍🦛🥸🎱🧯 :
just need a moment to collect my own thoughts.
2025-07-21 13:41:43
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Para Doxxx :
my misery doesn't love company 💖
2025-07-21 17:16:00
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Mo :
100% that’s how I self regulate
2025-07-25 21:58:14
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shiesty🍓 :
everybody takes it personal😞
2025-07-21 14:19:30
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emitt fuller :
avoidant attachment
2025-07-21 15:26:58
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heyitssars2 :
Sameeee and people get offended 😩
2025-07-22 02:57:00
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Celestial :
I do this too but lowk it’s unhealthy. The ppl in my life love me and want to help me, and if I want to create and maintain community I need to be vulnerable enough to be able to ask for and receive help - even if I think I don’t need/want it. Very frustrating problem hahaha
2025-07-21 15:43:46
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amnazz17_ :
Real friends send a “ho is you alive?” message every other week only to get a thumbs up and then again the same time next week🤣
2025-07-21 20:52:35
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Hana :
Same is there a diagnosis for this
2025-07-21 14:34:01
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Dogsdawgsdawgz :
This. I almost physically can’t form the words to talk about it, even if I wanted to. Just let me deal with it, I’ll be ok.
2025-07-21 14:59:26
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kyrah :
Are u Aquarius
2025-07-21 15:04:16
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.!!&@^#&! :
for me, its because I dont think anyone cares and I wouldnt be missed. I would show Im feeling bad, and then I hide because Im scared no one is gonna check up on me or even talk to me, so I push them away before they can "reject" me first. I hate doing it but its an awful instinct, especially when I'm "right" about my fears
2025-07-22 08:09:56
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lunaf :
people take it so personally ;-;
2025-07-22 12:40:20
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carmen 🦇 :
i’ve lost so so many ppl this way and i try and try to explain it but they just get more mad and still leave 🥲
2025-07-22 11:06:43
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kai :
I don't think this a toxic trait, I do the same thing though so maybe I'm biased? I think handling stress on isolation is a byproduct of being hyper independent but also having self confidence and resilience. I'd rather always be able to handle things alone then always need emotional support from others when I'm stressed
2025-07-21 18:27:55
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olivia :
How is this toxic, If your removing yourself to take time and process your emotions so you don’t take it out on other that seems healthy?
2025-07-21 16:09:28
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LITZY 🩵 :
See I do that but then everyone leaves me
2025-07-22 14:04:22
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Tik Toker :
Capricorn ♑🐐 vibes
2025-07-21 14:26:49
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lolo spam :
I’ll always communicate that i need my space first and come back when im ready. Because at the end of the day the ppl you love do care abt you and might be worried!
2025-07-21 21:24:42
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