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the lack of curiosity in dating bothers me, that’s why I quit 🙂↕️
2025-07-21 15:26:42
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Chloe999 :
We lived in Singapore for a year. When we returned to US, no friends or family had any questions for us about what it was like. Zero curiosity.
2025-07-22 03:05:16
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leespaner :
nice to see you on my feed again
2025-07-22 12:17:46
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esbyelle (don't like menthols) :
when I travel abroad people never want to hear about it, unless they're also big into traveling abroad. it's a conversation killer, even though they say they want to hear what is going on with me
2025-07-21 15:00:51
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TheJessicaV :
I would love to learn more about France and the differences in social issues, patriarchy, and everyday life, compared to the US. Would your husband be willing to make a vid?
2025-07-21 15:09:23
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Lola :
You moved back to the US ?
2025-07-22 11:41:03
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Shelly :
There are so few curious people in the world, it baffles me
2025-07-22 12:45:25
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Mystic.Brew :
For a start, calling the USA America doesn’t help in terms of acknowleging others presence.
2025-07-21 15:41:43
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Kes :
I'm an Australian. We always had to be curious about other counties and cultures because our island is so far away for the rest of the world.
2025-07-23 22:51:04
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Sofia / فلسطين الحرة :
I am frequently in Italy and they’re not interested in me or the US either. Unless it’s to talk about Trump, which I’m not interested in. Do you think it’s just generally human adults aren’t interested in others?
2025-07-22 05:25:00
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Ms Grey Goddess :
I've been to France, but I would 100% want to talk to him about France. When I return from any of my travels, people always say they want to have coffee and talk about my trip. We always end up talking about them.
2025-07-21 15:25:01
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Kerry McAvoy, PhD :
I’ve been traveling internationally a lot this year and it’s fascinating watching the degree we are very egocentric. Thanks for this message.
2025-07-22 12:15:01
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Ascoyne :
Is this regional, because that has not been my experience with my foreign partner when visiting the Midwest. People ask him questions all the time.
2025-07-22 02:46:21
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shanan41 :
The lack of curiosity is always baffling to me.
2025-07-21 17:05:08
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WallsCircus :
just returned from Belgium and feel less self conscious that I asked so many questions
2025-07-21 15:57:32
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0112762 :
Hey! I think your Patreon link is broken!
2025-07-21 15:10:38
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Linda :
Even asking about ethnicity whenever I say I’m Chinese the other person starts talking about their experience with an Asian woman they know from like Korea or something 💀🤣🤣
2025-07-21 19:21:54
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MCDV :
People don’t care about other cultures, not a clue about different ways. Education is so poor these days, even in private schools! No wonder intolerance is rampant and that people vote against their best interests.
2025-07-23 01:10:57
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eviequinny :
That’s such a shame. I don’t understand how people aren’t interested in other people’s life experiences that differ from their own. I’m so curious so I hope that you don’t get creeped out by the stalking that I’m about to do. ✌🏼 & ♥️
2025-07-22 23:34:00
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laduque66 :
Omg, Mel!! You nailed it! I notice this with my Spanish husband -the lack of curiosity is deafening!!!
2025-07-22 07:58:17
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HP :
I'm autistic and I am always curious about just about everything but others are not. I thought it was a neurotypical trait lol.
2025-07-21 15:39:46
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🌙🧿 :
I moved to France in 2011...also noticed this. Def. didn't make me want to move back to the US. became a French citizen.
2025-07-21 18:22:45
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Debbie Elicksen 🇨🇦🇺🇦🤘🧡 :
The rest of the world should mirror that energy. You're from the US? Oh, I've been to Canada. It's really beautiful there ... 😉
2025-07-22 02:54:45
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imafine1 :
I travel to Mexico every summer. Not one drop of curiosity. If I mention it, they act like I’m bragging. Wth?
2025-07-21 22:18:11
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BN :
And to think, Tennessee is trying to get rid of the HS foreign language requirement. Then people will have absolutely zero interest in other cultures as adults because of lack of exposure to anything outside of their own perspective.
2025-07-23 14:20:23
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