@drshantesays: Systems of privilege weaken the power of the privileged group. They never develop the muscle for resilience, innovation or survival. Meanwhile non privileged groups develop those skills and subsequent succeed despite the inequity of resources. #socialmedia #angerissues #sociology #education #fyp

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first90day
JP :
I’m a white man. Grew up in a small town around a lot of angry, sad young white men (thankfully not me, I got out, got educated, and had good parents - thank god). I’m in a different place in my life now in my thirties, and again because of my parents raising me with decency and my father being well educated, I never aligned with their beliefs…..but I will admit I was friends with some of these “angry white men” in high school. Who believed some nasty things - and whose beliefs are the main reason we are not friends today. You are spot on. And when those systems of Privilige start to break down, they react violently. I can tell you unequivocally that I have never had the displeasure of being around a more entitled, lame, sorry, pathetic group of men than these Republican white boys. It is not an accident that all of my former “friends” I cut off for their nasty, racist beliefs still work factory jobs for 14 bucks an hour and live in moms basement; and all of my black and brown friends went on to law school (like me),or medical school, or are analysts at big name companies. I’m sorry but it’s true. They want to talk that talk about “I’m not being racist I’m noticing patterns…” well there’s one for you! Coming from a white guy.
2025-07-22 19:29:29
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travel_chucky
ChuckTravels1 :
This is why they hate DEI. They know they can’t compete on a level playing ground.
2025-07-22 00:49:16
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conflictnchaos
Tony Fornow :
Sis!! This is a WHOLE WORD. I have been trying to explain this forever
2025-07-24 01:45:03
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auntie_quiet_storm
auntie_quiet_storm :
Because the world is waking up to the fact that they’re mediocre and rigged the game for themselves.
2025-07-22 18:16:08
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mikeg1891
Mike G. :
they had a 400 year head start and fumbled the bag
2025-07-22 15:53:21
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daniellelavirgo
Danielle Lavirgo :
Yessss they are so angry! I speak to them daily, it make them almost arrestedly developed. Nobody is more angry than yt men, they are use to things being handed to them enabling them & they don’t know how to keep their head above water. Yt men HATE their wives & they hate them even more when they leave them.
2025-07-22 00:26:17
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kimmay408
Kimmay :
Perfect summary! You will never become a more successful person when everything is handed to you.
2025-07-22 14:44:31
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pizzamaven
Apple User36956883 :
In retired, but when I was in the corporate world I had a team of 120 people reporting through me. It was a start up environment and I had to do a lot of hiring. The people who were the most successful were the ones who were hungry. Literally. Against everyone’s advice I hired an 18 year old black woman who had emancipated herself from her mother at 16. She was thin, had no experience, but scored exceptionally well on the aptitude test we gave everyone. It was a sales environment. I asked her why I should hire her and she locked eyes with me and said, because I’m HUNGRY. I NEED this. There aren’t any hours I won’t work. I don’t need breaks (everyone has to take breaks by law in CA, and lunch) or vacations. I need food. None of my managers wanted her because she was so young but I hired her and she reported to me, just as they did. She wiped the floor with everyone but two other people with over 20 years of experience. My managers were begging for her to be on their teams. I had a very diverse team. They broke all kinds of records together and individually and became the benchmark for the company. I’m still proud of them. And that skinny young woman gained 35 pounds eating steak and lobster. She made almost as much money as I did and I was three levels above her on the org chart. Go Kamilla!
2025-07-22 18:51:23
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vernadjohnson_
VernaDJohnson, MPA/LMSW :
Yes, yes and yes! I'm following
2025-07-24 01:01:33
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aframabstract
aframabstract :
This is what precisely happened with Black Wall Street. Jealously.
2025-07-22 20:45:23
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dianecsmith8
dianecsmith8 :
Exblackly ✨✨✨✨✨
2025-07-21 22:06:24
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midnighttransit
MidnightTransit :
My sister out here spitting million dollar bars!
2025-07-21 18:24:10
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taedarebirph
TaeDaReBirPH :
lost a friend b/c he asked "what coal workers are supposed to do if clean energy takes over?" and I answered "On job training, go back to school, pick up a new trade." he didnt like that answer.
2025-07-22 11:00:09
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chefsith
SithChef :
I think most of them are so angry because they were given privilege and they couldn't even achieve mediocrity
2025-07-21 17:10:04
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zenmama7
zenmom :
My dad always used to say, " The idea of equality feels like the loss of rights to those who are privileged "
2025-07-21 16:52:04
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sunshiney018
Briana :
Somebody said yt supremacy is a pyramid scheme.
2025-07-22 17:21:31
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anthonymontana811
anthonymontana811 :
As a white man this is correct. This is where the majority of racism comes from. That privilege has caused a huge lack of skills and character, so they choose to oppress and deprive the other races because they don’t have the substance to compete against them in life without an advantage.
2025-07-22 11:32:09
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user5041663595315521
Nunya Bidnizz :
privilege and laziness makes them weak.
2025-07-22 23:05:03
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dillydallysaurus
dillydallysaurus :
They got soft and enjoyed their privilege and now they're feeling inadequate. If they don't know how to build themselves up, they'll tear others down.
2025-07-22 15:10:41
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tonyc_516
TonyC516 :
They are angry because they hate themselves...
2025-07-23 15:32:29
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vickiwilcox5
Controller60 :
They designed the barriers and we exceeded them!!
2025-07-21 18:55:00
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soul3trey
Soul3Trey :
When I tell you I’ve NEVER had it explained this way!!🤯🙌🏽 It makes soooo much sense! This is why they have no culture and have to steal and appropriate everything. Privilege doesn’t have struggle to force it to make something out of nothing. 💯
2025-07-21 20:49:20
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sixx80baby
Sixx80Baby :
This is also why they are finding it so hard to revolt a system that overwhelmingly benefited them. They never HAD to.
2025-07-22 16:14:03
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rexdawg3
user5349357368654 :
"You can't keep up because you never thought you had to" D.L. Hughley
2025-07-22 09:54:34
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devinediva01
Jackie Devine :
they always move the goal post when we exceed expectations!
2025-07-22 18:28:32
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