i don't think a guy has to be super good looking, an average looking guy that's a bit attractive, dresses well and is masculine will have a lot more options for relationships than women
2025-07-21 16:47:40
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Helen :
Feel the same 37 and its slim pickings out there. Dating apps are soul destroying 🥺
2025-07-21 17:58:38
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Michael Farrell :
Only 80% of single men are no longer looking. I think average guys are equally disillusioned. We need more parties/dances where people talk
2025-07-24 12:03:13
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Lolly :
My step mum is 72 and she met a man last year while she was out black berry picking. They’ve been living their best lives together for the last year dining, hanging out, just enjoying each others company. It gives me hope it really does. And she didn’t meet my dad til they were late forties either and they had 18 incredible years together.
2025-07-21 18:04:08
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Jemima House :
I went to one in Bristol last year. It was shockingly bad.
2025-07-21 18:43:19
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Alexis Strum Pop Music :
Hon I so feel you. I went to one of those events and there was just no-one I fancied and I just ended up meeting new female friends! x
2025-07-25 16:37:30
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Claudine :
I’m 48 and gave up about 8 years ago. I’m just living my life, doing the things I enjoy and trying to have the best life I can afford to have. It gets me down sometimes as I’ve never been in love but I’d rather have a pretty good life on my own then settle for a mediocre man, and frankly, most decent men my age are already in relationships.
2025-07-22 09:17:06
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jude :
Have you tried climbing? That might be a really good environment for you to meet guys, especially bouldering
2025-07-21 21:19:46
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Maria87jj87 :
why are all dating avenues just rotten girl? I have literally no hope
2025-07-21 17:55:32
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Kolovaluna :
feel your pain. i think i've given up by now. have a marriage behind me, a couple avoidant bf-s. the very thought of dating makes me feel smth close to disgust. dont mind being friends with guys though, that seems to go better than relationship. also kinda starting to feel old for this and way too experienced. but all for the better i think
2025-07-21 16:57:14
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Niamh :
I went to a “Ditch the dating apps” night and met someone really lovely 😭 I can’t believe it
2025-07-21 20:04:33
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k2rvprepeo92 :
name?
2025-07-21 20:25:41
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Yallwannamaddy :
How do we actually meet decent guys without doing apps/events? Asking for a friend 😅
2025-07-23 19:16:30
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Clauds | Film & TV 🎥 :
I did one of those Thursday events years ago and I literally felt disposable- like dating apps in real life. It was awful and put me off going to any others 😬
2025-07-21 17:01:46
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roamanticgirl :
me me me
2025-07-21 18:24:39
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JaiDeeDJ :
That was a shock 😂 had a feeling you would come back with this view
2025-07-22 06:50:32
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Elaine Reidy :
I was meant to go to a speed dating event a couple of weeks back, on the day of the event I wasn't feeling it at all so I didnt bother going. The same group are organising a singles event party night, I was just thinking about this scenario, I wouldn't feel comfortable approaching a man tbh 🙈😂
2025-07-21 17:02:26
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Nicola Lee :
I totally agree with you. I’ve kinda given up too. So tough though isn’t it
2025-07-21 23:13:54
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thepirategrrl :
I feel like the guys who show up to these events are the same guys from the apps, most of which I won’t match with.
2025-07-21 20:10:17
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The Single List :
I keep saying my soul mate died in the 1920s or something
2025-07-21 21:57:39
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meme :
I was going to try that
2025-07-21 16:39:07
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avalondon :
Friend of mine recently became single and met almost instantly a new partner on a flight. It’s just luck I think. Right place right time x
2025-07-21 19:31:04
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Sigita_t1d :
I feel you, it feels there no man left my age 💀💀💀
2025-07-21 16:48:19
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