Nurse here - I would have let you use the ER computer to print out the divorce paperwork.
2025-07-22 20:44:42
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Rave :
I understand where you’re coming from considering he did this to hisself by over drinking but considering you were out of town visiting HIS family, you should’ve expected this reaction from them. Might’ve been worth it to stay but you’re not necessarily TA in this case
2025-07-28 03:28:06
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Sue 🇬🇧 :
He was admitted to hospital…he was staying over night…you go home, clean up and rest so that you can care for them when you get them home🤷♀️hubs did this after I gave birth (twice) I did this when he Ended up with bacterial cellulitis after ignoring my advice to go to doctors before it went funny🤗
2025-08-01 23:50:32
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alisonclark514 :
He’s in the hospital. If something happens, there is no better place to be. If something went south, her info would be his contact info, so she would have been notified anyway.
2025-07-22 17:11:35
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Daniela Sandoval :
Oh heck no! Once my husband starts acting funny, he’s on his own. There are consequences for his actions. He knows he can always count on me, except when he chooses to not control his drinking.
2025-07-22 18:47:53
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Velvia :
Me and my husband‘s been together for 25 years and neither one of us has ever left each other at the hospital overnight. If you truly love someone you don’t wanna leave them there. He would leave from the hospital and go to work in the morning and come back in the afternoon
2025-07-22 17:44:03
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Lala :
When I heard…AITA for leaving my spouse in the ER overnight🤔 I thought yea of course but wow the twist..NTA at all! He got so drunk he put himself in the ER, he’s not sick he just needed to sleep it off. NTA at all, he’s lucky she didn’t drop him at the ER doors.
2025-07-23 00:05:17
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IndiesOcean :
Unpopular opinion but yes YTA for leaving. If it was a boyfriend who acted like this- sure leave and let him figure it out but this is your husband of years that you vowed to weather storms with and when that was out to the test- you dipped. If this were reversed and the wife had “too much fun”, had an accident, acted poorly and the husband left… he would be the villain. Don’t make vows if you’re looking for perfection in relationships
2025-07-23 01:25:22
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Heather M Jordan :
NTA. I would’ve left too. Let him feel the embarrassment he brought upon himself. MIL and SIL could’ve both gone to hospital to see him. How childish of him to call him mommy to tell on his wife for doing what she did. Which again, I 100% agree with her. Can’t stand beligerante drunks.
2025-07-24 15:01:18
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shotgun bushranger :
oh he told a completely different story. tell his family he was sedated because he was violent
2025-07-22 17:13:56
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karalewis32 :
Hahaha I would have left and filed divorce papers
2025-07-22 17:18:57
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Lynnette Nordli :
why wasn't any of the immediate family at the hospital if it was so important
2025-07-22 23:51:40
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D’Marie :
If roles were reversed I feel like we’d be telling OP’s spouse to leave OP. Unpopular opinion YTA drunk or not when someone you care about gets admitted you contact family to let em know & take shifts.
2025-07-23 00:47:52
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Annwyl :
I probably wouldn't have left just in case but that's a personal preference. I don't think she's TA but she needs to really think about stuff because yeah he was drunk but if he's getting violent like that and belligerent just think of what he could have done to her if they were alone. I'm not saying he would or wouldn't but it's a definite possibility.
2025-07-23 05:24:03
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pobrecita :
ER nurse here, what could you do for him that medical staff couldn’t? he was fine, his behavior is the real problem
2025-07-23 01:22:13
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🖤Chaoshappenz🖤📖💪🏽 :
As someone who survived an alcoholic... NTA. that's grounds for divorce because it's only going to get worse if it hasn't already.
2025-07-22 21:55:02
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Secret Servals :
Wake up calls only come with real consequences.
2025-07-23 06:19:36
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AudessaMae :
nope. and since he wanted to call his family and tell on me they can have him back
2025-07-24 18:33:34
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ma chadenga 💕🙏 :
why his mother didn't stay with him...divorce came out of nowhere 😏
2025-07-23 11:14:29
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Roni V the Barbie :
No, he's grown. He made his own grown decisions.
2025-07-24 12:12:40
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🌻Whitney Weeks🌻 :
I mean, I would always stay with my husband thank God he doesn’t drink. But you told him to slow down sounds like you knew what kinda drunk he is and this probably isn’t the first or last time. I’d separate from him if it’s not the first time and on top of that he called to complain to his family let them come get him and take care of him.
2025-07-23 11:03:57
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Self Love ✨️ :
NTA. I think its a personal preference. I personally wouldnt leave my husband in a hospital but I wouldn't blame someone else for making that decision in this circumstance. Especially after being belligerent and aggressive even after getting SEVERAL warnings to slow down on the drinking. She was justified to leave...I just wouldn't have.
2025-07-22 19:25:43
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KGVibes80 :
Something happen??? Like a divorce! lol
2025-07-29 23:40:45
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Leia Organa4008 :
If this is a common then I do t blame u.
2025-07-23 22:21:59
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Denise Gutierrez :
NTA --' You need to look after yourself.
2025-07-22 20:01:39
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