@tonyacalilung: #stitch with @Murphy’s law Nobody owes you conversation. You centered your needs in that entire interaction and it wasn't your space #lgbtq #allyship #conditionalallyship

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moxie.jo.blazin.hoot
Moxie Jo :
is the video gone or did she block me? lol all I said was that not being the center of attention doesn't equal unsafe 🤷🏻‍♀️
2025-07-23 16:44:16
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zaphroth
Metal :
I’m gonna be honest… every time I hear some use the term ally, it comes from some pos who is about themself. The most excepting people I have ever met, don’t actually use terms and shit for thing to hey are just nice and keep to them self
2025-07-25 18:05:47
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nursemumpy
Nursemumpy :
People are scared. The world is a very scary place right now.
2025-07-23 21:41:50
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delia.padilla35
Delia Padilla :
She says the meaning of safe space is getting diluted because she needed a ‘literal get home in one piece type of safe space’ like those bar patrons weren’t also looking for a literal get home in one piece safe space.
2025-07-21 21:39:43
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chrissielynn6
Chrissie Lynn :
She was treated SAFELY, like she said she wanted. But what she was expecting was a YASS QUEEN welcome 🙄
2025-07-24 02:32:57
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heatherr989
Heather R989 :
I love your hair and glasses 💜
2025-07-26 01:59:05
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pixieoftheshire
Pixie :
She thought she was about to be the next Leslie Knope 🙄
2025-07-22 18:10:08
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oobigoobi
BB :
I cannot fathom this behavior. I do not want to even be perceived. I hate having to interact with any human being that I don't know, for any reason
2025-07-24 21:52:28
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maxnikki2020
Maxie :
She was safe, what did she expect? Them all to rejoice over her presence?!
2025-07-24 22:27:23
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gabbibanuelos
Yo GooBers :
is you necklace baby yoda?
2025-07-22 17:20:16
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justonemorebite88
justonemorebite88 :
She’s clearly not a true ally but can we talk about your glasses 😍. I’ve never seen glasses like this. I love them!
2025-07-24 08:43:07
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mirsa_iris
Mirsa Iris Barrera :
I love your glasses!😍
2025-07-23 22:39:06
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ryeinthesky
Rye Bread :
No cuz the “allyship” is definitely performative if she gets mad when she doesn’t get a reward for what? Existing?
2025-07-24 16:12:59
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manofconviction1979
McKay Joel :
You had me until you brought race into it. Lost all credibility
2025-07-25 13:39:59
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artsyglo
artsyglo :
🖤
2025-07-24 14:00:20
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prime_time89
Primetime89 :
What she really wanted yall to do when she walked in 😂 -
2025-07-26 17:31:37
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noscopegoddess
3D | 𝔽𝕠𝕣𝕤𝕒𝕜𝕖𝕟 :
She wanted to be the main character in that gay bar so bad.
2025-07-25 15:08:27
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alliekatz
Allie Kat Scott :
It’s so interesting that they only ever seem to brag about being an ally to gay men. When it comes to queer women, we scare them or they want to use us as a prop for the bedroom. I’ve been SA’d by a straight woman in front of her boyfriend. Straight women need to understand they’re our oppressors too, especially after a lot of them voted for Trump.
2025-07-23 19:58:02
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dannynotthevito
DannyNotTheVito :
I like your glasses
2025-07-23 22:20:28
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emilypowell201
Nurse-Em :
there’s NO WAY she passed the vibe check & rightfully so! She went to that bar expecting that bc you “think you’re an ally” then someone from the community is supposed to entertain you? Oh honey-
2025-07-24 16:16:44
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paladincrowe
Tyler Crowe :
my thoughts as an ally have always been that I'm merely a guest in any lgbtq+ space. and in this day and age, I'm going to be treated with mistrust and left alone until that trust is earned.
2025-07-25 14:51:55
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maggielou6319
maggielou6319 :
She feels so completely irrelevant in real life That she’s trying to call attention to herself Any attention is better than no attention for some people
2025-07-23 20:00:40
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red_lip_resistance
JL 💄💋 :
THIS PART!!!! 1) We don’t know if someone’s an “ally” if we don’t know them and 2) THEY DONT GET TO CHOOSE WHETHER THEY ARE AN ALLY! WE decide who is an ally. WE decide who we can and cannot trust. Ugh. I wish I could find the full vid. Looks like she removed this vid and changed her name.
2025-07-25 00:09:41
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richard_dfw
Richard :
It’s sounds like they weren’t into her and she got big mad about it.
2025-07-24 11:07:42
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scottmelchionda
Scott Melchionda :
She’s a one woman bachelorette party treating a gay bar like a trip to the zoo
2025-07-25 20:28:48
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