JusticeforZeta :
They hate on you because it’s so much easier for you. Hear me out. I know that’s inflammatory to say and probably infuriating to hear. Please give me a second. I’m trying to have some thoughtful debate. Men are valued based on their ability to provide utility & value. That’s been disrupted with feminism because they have whole new category to compete with. It makes them mad. They can’t play the same game. That makes them madder. Women with average looks and post and go viral. The same is not true for men. Women have been getting better opportunities in the workplace because they’ve been overlooked due to the patriarchy. Men are working harder and getting less. That’s why they are mad. Now, this means they have to level up, but they can’t. They don’t know how, so if they can’t build their proverbial building that represents themselves and the offer they bring to the world. The higher the building, the more status they have and better quality of life…if they can’t build it higher then their only alternative is to try to tear yours down. It’s not moral, but it’s logical, it’s rational, it’s animalistic. On the woman side, I can only speak from personal experience, but hearing a woman speak about the patriarchal issues typically signals a women that wants to disrupt the traditional gender roles. The woman is seen as coming out of her feminine which can give the guy an ick. Not nice to hear, but the truth will set us all free. See in this example, both men and women lose. Why? Because we so rarely are able to develop the matrimonial bond which hinges on the complimentary relationship and traditional gender roles dating back thousands of years. The rise of feminism has an unintended side effect which is directly correlated to an almost opposite but equally reaction of failed relationships. Now, the fact that your hurt is evidence of the disruption. You are torn from a breakup and grieving what was and could’ve been, but you are liberated with feminism. You want love and marriage, and biologically hardwired to desire nurturing. But it’s a classic you can’t have your cake and eat it too. This was my stream of consciousness. I’m going to post another one and ask gpt to
2025-07-22 06:59:06