Robin :
Yeah, I knew immediately that giving someone accurate information doesn’t work, because I know myself, and even though I’m great at adapting some things into my beliefs, my dentist will never be at peace. No matter how much I’m told I should only have water between meals and I shouldn’t drink carbonated drinks or sugar, that is just never gonna happen. And I’ll never be able to wrap my head around how bad it is for my teeth, I WILL CRY ABOUT IT when I think about it, but that information is never going to change my habits without a direct impact to change my behavior. I would love to follow facts and information, but I don’t, because I happen to have a personal and intricate experience in my body that can easily convince me to do a lot of things that are not rational, or that are even directly bad for me. But I can’t really just decide to «listen to the facts» because unlearning something and changing your method is a very difficult process that’s gonna take a long time. I’m trying to cut back on sugar, but that is like 1/5 things the dentist tells me to watch out for, and I already have irreversible damage. I’m still going to work on it, but there Is no world where you could convince me when I had a younger mind to not drink soda regularly, because I liked it, and I wasn’t afraid of the outcome even though it was bad. I bet it’s not like this with everything, but I feel like my dental experience fits a similar structure to the general experience of learning things and how you instinctively make a choice on if it matters to you or not
2025-07-23 15:39:25