@monikahoyt.coach: Here's what to do if your spouse is having a midlife crisis. #midlifecrisis #midlifecrisis #marriageproblems #iloveyoubutimnotinlovewithyou #marriagecoach
my partner of 10 and a half years left me and our 2 kids 4 weeks ago, he said he just didn't love me anymore, the love wasn't enough and there's nothing there anymore, he changed about 2 weeks before and said something changed in his head and he feels lost. we are now at 1 week no contact at all and although I hope he comes back to me one day I dont think he will. can you help me with this? I'm so hurt and confused 😞
2025-07-24 00:09:32
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Jay Hufton :
I reacted in the opposite way you spoke of. She said she wanted space and now says she wants divorce. Is this irreversible now now she’s said she wants divorce? She keeps keeping me around and keeps contacting me even when I try not to contact her. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do or do I accept it’s the end?
2025-07-23 17:26:53
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Mari 🍒 :
How long does this midlife crisis take to get over. He’s getting help but it’s seems likes im getting pushed away even further.
2025-07-25 00:51:45
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ReemaSethi1971 :
This is my story 💯. We separated and even filed for divorce but can’t seem to sign on the dotted line . We are back in counseling to see if what he went through was a midlife crisis and if there’s any hope of reconciliation
2025-07-23 21:01:43
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Tonya Danielle :
His midlife crisis lead him to have an affair and into the arms of 2 different coworkers, one of which he's still seeing. I went through this for 1.5 years hoping he'd get past it and he didn’t. We got divorced in May and I still struggle with how quickly everything changed. 20 years gone.
2025-07-23 02:26:31
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Ittttttw1321 :
My husband left suddenly telling me he needs to focus on his happiness but is also telling me his confused and don’t know what he wants, still loves me and our family but feels like he needs to do more to build a better future and that means not being in our family 🥲
2025-07-23 16:19:49
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Almost thriving ✨ :
He already told me, he doesn’t want to be with me and refuses to change, he’s pushing for separation because he doesn’t want to be with me. So there’s nothing more for me to do.
2025-07-23 12:39:40
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Mackenzie Phillips :
Going thru this, my husband filed for divorce after separating and moving in with his mother. She is contributing to a lot of the issues and is altering his head space, she’s never liked me but wasn’t around for 13+ years. Now she’s taking over his life and ruining him. I feel helpless, I cannot lose my person! I need help!!!!
2025-07-23 02:54:35
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Cherrygirl🩵 :
I am letting him go! But yes his reality is distorted
2025-07-25 03:03:13
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OctoberDevil :
That's what I'm doing he's in his 40s dating a 24-year-old but I'm not going anywhere I'm just letting him do his midlife crisis thing until they break up in the meanwhile we live together and live as partners like we always have I'm not sure what she thinks is going to happen maybe she should get back with her own husband since she got married when she was 22
2025-07-23 12:31:25
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Tetley :
I think I’m doing the opposite of what I should be doing. I’m not steady and showing confidence. I’m too reactive. This is hard.
2025-07-23 00:23:23
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Heather McKenzie475 :
This is happening to my husband now. Im trying to give him the space he needs to figure out what he wants, but man is this hard.
2025-07-23 01:08:50
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R-Bates700xx :
I think she’s having a midlife crisis because she’s changed everything that she’s always hated now she likes and she had an affair and now she’s living with that person
2025-07-23 00:43:22
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Noelle :
I’m just not sure, he said he’s not in love with me and that he wants to move out and he said that he’s been feeling this way for years, but he sure has done a good job faking it, he’s all of a sudden become super fit, and said that he can’t be in the house with me because it’s killing him
2025-07-23 05:28:58
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Cassie May :
Too late now… I begged, pleaded, asked the same questions…now he’s moved in with a girl who was our friend and she is pregnant
2025-07-23 23:04:28
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Kristi :
Total Blindsided wanting Divorce
2025-07-23 20:13:57
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Wade Walton :
Yeah my problem is I pleaded. And it pushed her further away.
2025-07-23 03:21:22
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Teal :
excellent advice. unfortunately my husband did not want professional help. instead he started an affair
2025-07-23 11:56:34
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doodlesdorock (Nikki) :
This is 100 percent my husband. He left me 5 weeks ago.
2025-07-23 00:15:29
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FaithYFuerza :
Why do we have to bend all the way and put our feelings on hold and doing all this work so they can stump all over us because they are having a “crisis”
2025-07-24 03:26:48
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Melissa Gearhart :
So powerful 😭
2025-07-23 19:20:40
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Carey :
How do you convince them to get help? I’m about to lose my mind? I feel like I’ve lost my whole world
2025-07-25 16:55:47
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TheRealTJ :
It's hard not to take it personally when she's having an emotional affair.
2025-07-23 12:31:51
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SaraAnne395 :
He did this- walked out 5 months ago with no reason. All he’s said in that time is that he needs space - I’ve tried to give space but it’s hard since I’m sick and have major medical issues and he’s not helping with house issues and stuff he needs to that’s putting major stress on me . I’m ready to call it and say I’m done because I can’t take the stress of his bs
2025-07-23 07:18:22
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Christina S. :
Yeah his midlife crisis also came with a co-worker.
2025-07-23 13:28:00
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