@kristenselle: Now don’t get me wrong, I wasn’t always like this. But cheers to growth 🎊 #attachment #avoidantattachment #anxious #relationshipadvice

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_taureanglow
VenusianMuse :
So true. The wrong person can make you feel so anxious and insecure. Our bodies warn us when a connection isn’t safe.
2025-07-23 01:44:44
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_cloud9resident
Cloud 9️⃣ Resident ✈️ :
It’s so important to know one’s attachment style and love languages etc.
2025-07-25 20:30:11
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foreverdavy
foreverdavy :
What happened to the live? 😫
2025-07-23 02:26:07
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tammylc29
Tammy :
Speaking from past experiences, I agree. Now that I've grown, learned and evolved...I also think having the right partner...your person, can help heal any attachment style issues. If you have a partner that truly loves and cares about you...you/they're putting in the effort, patient, creating trust (bc there's nothing without trust) proving that you're safe with them...your words and actions align, you keep your word, you communicate openly/transparently about anything and everything (no matter how minor or major you may think it is), you show them love through their own love language(s), you're consistent...etc. I think that if you have all of this in your relationship then that's how you create true intimacy and you'll naturally evolve into a secure attachment style within your relationship. I think your person will make all the difference in the world...you really just need your person.
2025-07-23 03:27:54
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jaz23440
Jaz :
Yes and those are opportunities to self reflect and practice getting through those barriers for oneself. I grow so much when my relationships show me how to keep choosing myself over and over.
2025-07-23 16:30:20
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jaymosmemez
jaymo :
yessss 👏 I just made a video about this with getting an avoidant back. avoidants need space to regulate and how its the anxious attachers fault they pull back
2025-07-23 14:28:41
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blessed1667
Blessed1667 :
Omg that is so me, good to know I’m not going crazy love it!!!!
2025-07-23 11:39:41
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lisarmeran
Lisa | Gym + Glow :
This is very true
2025-07-23 15:30:40
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patriciaplacencia7
Patricia :
Agreed 👏👏👏👏👏👏
2025-07-26 00:26:25
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cusieelihle
cusieelihle :
Love this… wish most masc understood this.
2025-07-23 17:34:18
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shannamarie27
Shanna :
The short hair and locs are so cute 🥰
2025-07-23 03:57:57
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pao55_5
_Dippydips_ :
Yup went from anxious to avoidant to avoidant and still avoidant 😐
2025-07-23 01:45:48
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summers202302
✨ :
I can understand long as you communicate if you want to see what’s out there respect it I’ll fall back. And do me
2025-07-23 02:37:32
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morra618
Morra618💚 :
Agree 👏👏👏👏
2025-07-23 06:04:06
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summers202302
✨ :
We have the same communication style, however we will have to understand the other ones and it could trigger my anxiousness . Especially if one is avoidant
2025-07-23 02:36:32
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dinorabayron101
Dee :
♥️♥️♥️
2025-07-23 02:23:21
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haydeexgutierrez
haydeexgutierrez :
🖤
2025-07-26 09:43:34
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nataliieeniicolee
꧁༒☬♤ɴสnii♤☬༒꧂ :
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
2025-07-23 18:37:10
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tennesseewhiskey_chic
TennesseeWhiskeyChic :
💯💯💯
2025-07-23 04:52:04
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beckylewis81
beckylewis :
my narcs ex was a pathetic liar but i was able to get enough evidence against him from @FERRANTOOLZ REAL ACCOUNT 🌎 before our final divorce
2025-07-23 12:43:58
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