See, the problem is that they show you how close they can get and do anything during the beginning stage. It’s a bait and switch.
2025-07-23 14:59:55
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dr90 :
Just had the exact situation. Perfect the first 6 months. Then she changed, broke up with me 2 months later, lead me on for another month. Ended things because she said she needs to resolve her issues and can’t be with anyone. Two days later my friend showed me her tinder account
2025-07-23 06:22:51
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harpunstrung :
I’m an aquarium and my ex DA was a shot glass.
2025-07-23 16:31:04
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Yuri 🦇 :
your videos help me understand their pov, thank you
2025-07-23 06:09:06
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user3447683844310 :
This really speaks to me. 8 months of seeing each other. Really looked like we were gonna make it official then one day I look on Facebook and he’s in a relationship with someone he met 2 weeks prior. He was still seeing me and the last time we were together his behaviour wasn’t any different and he was saying how much he liked me etc. total blindsided
2025-07-25 12:40:37
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Celeste :
I heard the exact same thing after 2 years and she said she never wants to be in a relationship she’s not built for a relationship and she just wants to be alone forever. I feel so bad that she really think’s being alone is right for her. I stopped trying because it just pushed her away more. I do miss her everyday and hope she’s ok.
2025-07-25 20:42:25
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Amber🌈 :
I'm living this exact situation! this helps me understand it so much more and it hurts but helps so much!
2025-07-23 06:15:00
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BE-RAY :
not wanting to change ? what about if you worked on yourself, self growth self learning, inner healing -would be so much more beneficial, healthy and contribute to a longer more solid strong bond/connection
2025-07-24 07:10:23
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Donk Blankenstein :
Yeah, what they want is eternal, rotating situationships. Period.
2025-07-23 13:57:45
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🇲🇽Juan Pablo🇲🇽 :
The phrase “ I don’t want to disappoint you” classic
2025-07-25 02:05:21
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Cocoapuff42 :
I know I should just move on and get over it.But are they actually gonna last?Is the girl that he left me for are they actually gonna be better than what we were
2025-07-24 03:31:58
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Thewizardwithwords :
Can you give information about how avoidants can heal from a secure partner..or does it just get to the point where a secure partner would leave since the avoidant won’t advance the relationship or open up more. I also wonder about the differences typically seen between female/male avoidants although I know you’ve touched on that beforez
2025-07-24 15:19:46
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JaredSellers1111 :
That misfits shirt though
2025-07-23 13:13:02
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ᴄᴀᴍᴍʏ ᯤ̸ 𓈆 1% :
The core conflict of an avoidant is, by definition, the unshakable LAW that they have to put their independence above the mutual needs of a relationship. This is why nothing will EVER work unless they do the healing themselves.
2025-07-27 05:03:36
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mikeytulip :
I almost had this exact same conversation. However I didn’t get the specific response you portrayed in the video. Hurts really bad.
2025-07-25 11:23:14
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Jeff Hunter :
There's no commitment to having a long serious relationship so when it comes to an and avoidance that's my experience in my life you just can't have a long-term serious committed relationship with them
2025-07-27 14:15:05
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✨️kara✨️ :
trauma doesn't give a reason to be selfish, hurt people, or free of consequences 🤷🏻♀️you are in control of your own behavior and emotions, just like any mental health situation 🤷🏻♀️
2025-07-26 01:20:21
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user6940386040739 :
I think the explaination about autonomy being more important than love was pretty accurate to what they think and feel. I mean he attempted to explain it that way, i know he was struggling to explain.
2025-07-23 17:22:24
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JetsettingGinger :
Spot on
2025-07-23 11:12:55
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brr :
Spot on!😭
2025-07-23 14:41:49
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Kawaii Cute Sweet :
They don't have the ability of loving like we do. For example: they max is level 2 and your max is level 10... If you can stay at level 2 they will feel ok. Once you will go higher you will suffocate them.
2025-07-23 12:36:44
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🛡️⚔️🐯🐉⚔️🛡️ :
avoidance are nothing but selfish manipulators and they try to explain it away just like the narcissist would and gas light everybody to be that they're a victim and they have a problem. we just generally call those people assholes in our days not avoidance they're just takers not givers they will use you to the end and walk away like if ever even matter. gentleman women or nothing but manipulators they know exactly what they're doing they teach each other these things notice they all have avoiding tendencies now 😂😂😂😂😂
2025-07-23 15:19:26
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Nicole Paola :
I'll just abandon them🫣🤷🏿♀️I'll no stress myself
2025-07-23 15:54:19
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