@tonyacalilung: Replying to @unresolvedenergy I swear you wanted a straight experience in a gay bar #fakeally #lgbtq #community #allyship101

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ifthatswhatyoureinto
ifthatswhatyoureinto :
i think a lot of ppl dont realize that gay bars are typically very closed spaces, by nature of the commmunity typically knowing each other and bring pretty insular. like ofc they'd be a bit off around a rando coming in
2025-07-23 12:39:40
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ayeeeeitscam
Cam :
I'm gonna choose to see both sides here. Even if you're in community, nobody's gonna know you if it's your 1st time there. Not everybody has a a regular bar. Some people like to go to new places. And mean mugging and giving dirty looks to new people isn't wild to you?
2025-07-24 10:06:50
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skyle031
SKyle :
I still don’t get why she ordered drinks if she only planned on being there for a minute while waiting for a car
2025-07-29 06:21:36
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evalkyrie2
EValkyrie :
weird. when I go to the bar alone and I know nobody i dont expect attention.
2025-07-23 12:08:22
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hunterchromatic
Hunter Chromatic :
so gay bars are usually a kind of closed off safe space for gay ppl, so I dont find it odd that the patreons of that bar would be standoffish when someone who they're not sure of walks in
2025-07-23 17:19:51
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beautifuldisaster01234
beautifuldisaster01234 :
Good point…. She wanted to left alone and they left her alone and she didn’t like it??? I’m just an Allie and a safe ride cause I don’t drink. But I don’t pretend to be apart of there community. They welcome me but I’m an outsider and that’s okay.
2025-07-24 16:25:29
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interpretermas7
InterpreterMAS :
Sorry, totally off topic, but your glasses are sooooo neat 🥰
2025-07-25 02:35:42
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ermanywai
Ermanyway :
Your glasses are gorgeous, where are they from?
2025-07-23 17:55:48
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church_of_auto_save
church_of_auto_save :
it's now set to private/ taken down.
2025-07-25 17:09:49
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nemotoad2
nemotoad2 :
Can you tell me where you got those glasses 😂😂😂
2025-07-24 03:33:53
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saphthings
Saph things :
Honestly, men tend to be nicer to those they’re attracted to/are interested in (hence the whole “friend zone” thing and women being surprised if it isn’t turning into a relationship the guy disconnects). So she’s just not used to how she’d actually be treated as a person vs by a group of guys that see her as a potential mate. The “strange energy” is “disinterest”. Essentially how men are welcomed anywhere. Disinterest feels safe and she’s not used to not feeling that, she thinks safe means “protected by guys”.
2025-07-24 08:46:17
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autumnsmist
Autumn :
she took it down now
2025-07-23 16:45:39
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lunartheoryofficial
Lunar Theory Photography :
it's the video unavailable for me 😂
2025-07-23 18:30:05
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kalawanders
Kala Wanders :
your... GLASSES 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
2025-07-25 20:30:55
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thesunshiinecourt
⁉️ :
she WANTED us to be the GBF stereotype and act as her entertainment as she waited for her cab
2025-07-29 04:01:53
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elysiaofhumanity
lumi :
offtopic but ive never seen glasses like that theyre so cute on you
2025-07-23 17:52:17
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heatherlowe10
Heather Lowe15 :
She has such a savior complex in a time when nobody is looking for one
2025-07-25 22:42:04
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ashleyguillen02
Ashley Guillen :
so weird cause I wouldn't go into any bar expecting anyone to speak to me unless I was already with people I knew or meeting people.
2025-07-25 14:34:56
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skullkrushrrr
uwu :
sorry just gotta say that your glasses are AWESOME
2025-07-24 21:43:27
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dramaismycardio17
AJ :
right like I am so confused with what this girl expected!! lol. also- cool glasses 😎
2025-07-23 17:43:17
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ifthatswhatyoureinto
ifthatswhatyoureinto :
ooh, unrelated but your earrings are super cute!
2025-07-23 12:40:24
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allinashville
Alli ✌🏻 :
You said everything I’m thinking
2025-07-23 12:42:50
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yallgotanyquack
Just a ducquakquak :
I went to a bar with what I thought was the same vibe. Then i realized this is not my world, this is OUR WORLD. after leaving my selfish mentality, the vibes got better
2025-07-25 13:47:10
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call_me_emy_3
call_me_emy_3 :
Me and my husband go to gay bars all the times. We enjoy the vibes and the music there. Being friendly goes both ways.
2025-07-25 01:51:19
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krissy.232
Krissy.232 :
I know it's not the point, but I love your glasses.
2025-07-25 12:33:09
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