@shanisilver: You don’t have to get married. You don’t have to have babies. These are not the only markers of success for women, and it’s better to never need a divorce than to have to beg for one.

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sarahjay8326
Sarahjay :
To my friends who want to be SAHMs I always tell them “get your purse first!” Do NOT give up career experience for a husband, kids sure but make sure you can financially take care of them because divorce isn’t the only thing that can make you a single mom.. death happens too.
2025-07-24 00:54:01
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stephaniediane25
Stephanie Diane :
I can’t tell you how much I wish someone had told me this when I was in my 20s. But ladies, please listen: being a stay at home mom or a trad wife is such a trap.
2025-07-23 20:19:00
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nicotinestain77
NicotineStain :
Learn to get a prenup stating he provides you an income and contributes to a retirement plan if you agree to be a stay at home mom.
2025-07-26 01:05:29
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juleshyatt72
Jules 😘 :
Been there and done that. It’s a soft life grift sold by the patriarchy. 1/10. I do not recommend.
2025-07-23 12:36:56
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themarytracy
TheMaryTracy :
We need to create a world where every mother has access to support and can leave her husband if she wants to
2025-07-23 14:16:57
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returntoher_org
✨ Becky | Return to Her ✨ :
Oh, I know it man. I was married at 19 had three babies by the time I was 26 and got divorced. Left my husband when I was 27 had no way to support myself or pay for the divorce. My dad had to take out of his 401(k) to pay for my divorce when my ex-husband tried to take my kids from me. Then I went to college. While raising three young boys. I didn’t graduate until 2012 so all I do is try to tell these ladies not to do what I did
2025-07-24 02:02:06
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anotherdaygreener
Tara Redfield | Astrologer✨ :
Yes and also side comment… can we have a meet-up or retreat?! Would love to gather with this community!
2025-07-23 21:35:10
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crystalv102
Crystal Velasquez :
As much as I joke about wanting to be a lady of leisure, that fantasy never involved me having to ask some man for an allowance. I never want to be that dependent on anyone or that trapped.
2025-07-24 15:41:17
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fiets76
@fiets76 :
It is a scamm to let us do free labor. Just divorced after 30 years.
2025-07-24 10:06:55
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lbp1030
lbp1030 :
Marriage is hard under the best of circumstances. I wish these very young women would take the time to establish their own careers before they jump in.
2025-07-23 13:08:11
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kiwawad
Keeks🇿🇦 :
YEAH ACTUALLY
2025-07-23 17:22:22
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mrs._maker
mrs._maker :
Amen!! I didn’t get married until mid 20’s and didn’t have babies until my 30’s. My choice, my decision. This is what worked best for me. But you need to find what works best for you! ❤️
2025-07-23 13:44:06
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mjs.2024
mjs.2024 :
and I bet at first they were the ones insisting that their husbands would never.
2025-07-24 13:24:56
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sandygreen41
SandyGreen :
100%
2025-07-24 00:50:28
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thedivinewicked3
TheDivineWicked :
always stay employed ladies
2025-07-23 13:20:35
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vv8823
user3493311290832 :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-25 18:27:12
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khajiithascomments
khajiit has comments :
women need to realize that they don't want to be trad wives they just don't want to work nonstop under the boot of capitalism and have more free time
2025-07-23 14:40:20
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coramcril
Cora M :
"He would never do that to me" Okay, well, are you willing to risk your children's access to food and shelter on it? Cuz that's what you're doing. Also, he could get injured, sick, or pass away. A man is not a plan
2025-07-23 13:25:45
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