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lusha ⭐️🫧🍉 :
i heard something along the lines of “bad people are just like everyone else aside from the bad things they do. they go to the grocery store, they have friends, they have favorite movies and shows. they’re just bad people” bad people don’t start with saying “hey nice to meet you by the way i’m gonna be very manipulative and hurt you” they’re gonna act like anyone else. it’s always “you shoulda coulda woulda” until you’re IN IT
2025-07-24 01:57:13
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KatawaGrey :
I've had this thought about my college bf. He was abusive, manipulative, and a champion gaslighter. I'm amazed at the amount of energy and strategy it took to do all of that so well. If he was a good person, he would have changed the world by now.
2025-07-23 13:43:52
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user6204709881029 :
Game recognize game now that’s a man who knows ball
2025-07-25 18:07:47
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Purpleplanet loading….. :
I just find it odd how women are punished for being loving. Even now, people are more focused on chastising you and not the person who hurt you. It takes a strong person to come out of what you went through and still have love for those around them, and even themselves
2025-07-23 15:12:30
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Kayla Sue :
Do men get the “choose better” rhetoric…? My husband’s first marriage ended because she had an affair. He and I have been together almost 20 years and I genuinely can’t remember him ever being told he should have chosen better before having two kids with her.
2025-07-24 13:02:42
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unknown :
YES THIS. LIKE POLICE BOTH SIDES IF YOUR POLICIN PPL
2025-07-23 12:43:45
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tkphantom97 :
I always found the "choose better" argument to be flawed not only because the people who say that rarely know the full context of that relationship. It's also that they being manipulative and amoral is locked to only one gender and orientation
2025-07-23 15:35:32
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daryl | יעקב :
it feels like just another way to blame the woman and let the man off the hook :/
2025-07-23 16:40:25
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sarah :
i always say the playbook is the same, the script is often the same, but each man puts his own creative spin on everything he does. they let their spitefulness fuel their creativity in their harm
2025-07-26 18:42:25
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jas :
all true, but if you had married that man before having a baby with him maybe you wouldnt be getting blindsided with this information. not so woke and cool to be a babymama now right?
2025-07-23 14:05:27
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stapityou :
He was a whole professional. Expert skills in people traffic. Like leveled up those attributes all the way. I was bamboozled
2025-07-24 01:43:51
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the333rdchild | artist :
YES, especially bc those ppl it’s not a one time thing so like many habits you get better at them the more you do them to others. Sometimes they don’t slip up and reveal themselves until they’ve already done so much damage
2025-07-23 14:04:15
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Arthur ⭐ :
I think both can be true at the same time to different degrees depending on who we're talking Abt women should take the power and autonomy we do have to choose better bc sometimes that does play a part however it's so difficult to say that bc we don't hold men accountable enough for them being good at manipulation some of these men are horrible and they're good at being horrible.
2025-07-23 12:48:53
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MacKenzie 🍉🫶 :
People don't realize how insidious dudes / people like that can be. Some people are so practiced at manipulation that they learn to hide it for YEARS. There is a reason we have statistics about @buse escalating after pregnancy. Those aren't women "choosing poorly," those are partners who take advantage of situations in which we are vulnerable.
2025-07-23 20:13:21
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marthazarinamarti :
In literature, in myths and stories the devil is always seductive.
2025-07-24 14:52:51
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qohelethsson :
Great points, thanks for sharing
2025-07-23 13:39:31
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Marie :
Preach!!
2025-07-23 16:00:45
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Tony & Homie :
🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-24 01:33:30
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itsjayzpov :
i’ve noticed the “choose better” stance is always taken by men who for some reason assume they are part of said “better” group. and bc they think that, they think it’s so easy to find one of them that is “better” or actually good for you
2025-07-23 18:32:41
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Jazzturbation :
It’s a horrible shame that inconsistent reinforcement is so powerful psychologically. Because idiots with bad motives are at a distinct advantage socially. I don’t know your situation so I can’t speak to it, but I have known other people with similar stories. And one of the terrible things about abuse and the psychology of it is that abusers actually don’t have to be smart or skilled or talented. In fact, they frequently turn to abuse because they aren’t those things - and abuse is easy.
2025-07-23 13:26:13
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FormallyHeyZues :
you look like your barely 26. this society needs to stop sexualizing 20 something yr olds. stop convincing CHILDREN, to have kids. biggest point of this is hospitals consider 35 yr olds as " geriatric pregnancy." its just pushing the fxcking point of pedos being nasy
2025-07-27 01:59:12
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Carissa :
All the videos from men upset about the tea app right now are proving your point. When we try to help each other with information about men so we actually can choose better, those men don’t like that either.
2025-07-24 12:16:49
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kisa :
Honestly, the conversation is tiring because why is the victim the one who’s told to do better? Like there’s a manipulative fuck over there, but yeah, the person who trusted them must be the piece of shit like what?
2025-07-23 22:11:28
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Brenna Lynn :
Youre not weak at all. They act like we chose them knowing all that they are and that those men never lie 🙄
2025-07-24 17:42:50
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Kittey :
one of my most toxic relationships love bombed me and then convinced me he was in danger in his current living situation. Was it the best decision in the world? no but I was only 20 and if I'm a "weak woman" for wanting to help someone reach safety then I guess I'm okay with that. Some abusers say and do some really fucked up shit to get their vicitms
2025-07-24 13:50:04
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