I think the main thing I’ve seen is that people end up trying poly relationships, have a bad experience, and then assume that /all/ poly relationships are bad because “how could it possibly work”, when 90% of the time they don’t work out due to poor communication
2025-07-23 16:50:10
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Chloe O'Moanaigh :
as a poly person who's had exclusively bad experiences with poly relationships. it's 100% the people not communicating that is the problem
2025-07-23 16:32:23
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🍉Dakota™💫 :
same, yeah im sure its hard to maintain, but id rather wish them luck than make them feel bad about it
2025-08-03 21:19:16
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Katie_Bugz :
it’s not for me cause yeah i’d get jealous :3
2025-07-23 16:42:27
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foxx :
the other two got married without telling me
2025-07-23 20:02:18
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phonesphonos :
but what if my subs unionize against me???? answer me that
2025-07-30 00:30:58
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Tay :
my first and last poly relationship put me in a mental institution for a year and gave me Stockholm syndrome
2025-07-23 16:09:39
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Ho0ty :
the reason i get upset when i see a poly relationship is because my ex broke up with me because she suddenly put of nowhere wanted to be in a poly relationship with some other people. has nothing to do with me not liking poly relationships as a type of relationship, more of a truama response to something that happened to me that really sucked.
2025-07-23 16:24:58
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sam :
i dont hate people who are in poly relationships i hate people who get into poly relationships who dont understand poly relationships and get upset because of it 😁
2025-07-27 05:05:59
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⚓️MISSINGPLUTO🌊 :
the fact that poly is even used as an insult now
2025-07-25 02:59:14
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ed :
i was in an evil poly relationship and every other poly person ive met is genuinely so evil BUT yk whatever man its your life i just had evil experiences i just feel bad for some people who SEEM (giys, seem) like they were in my situation (their partner dating/favoriting other partners) like idk not my life i dont know private conversations i just want everyone happy
2025-07-23 16:14:22
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Smuk ket :
It’s about the average mind set of someone entering poly space, it’s hard to find people “mediated” in the space
2025-07-23 17:46:32
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Robin Tempest :
I don’t have anything against people in a poly relationship, I just know that is not for me, I have my doubts about how it would work, but if you can make it work, then more power to you
2025-07-23 16:14:45
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Kim :D :
Not hate but not my taste. I am way too clingy as a person that I will get jealous and mentally take a toll if I see my partner with someone else. If others can do it the good for them :))
2025-07-23 16:24:29
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phantom :
I wrote a whole essay on this exact thing, it's not the whole poly dynamic that's creating these bad relationships, and creating the narrative that a lot of poly people are annoying/self centered/obnoxious or trying to separate from "the bad ones" is literally not helping
2025-07-23 17:05:24
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eliaw36 :
Can only share my whole one self. And that's a difficult thing to do equaly amongst more people. Hope you understand.
2025-07-23 16:28:25
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Thing :
MHM. never understood it
2025-07-23 16:07:01
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Derpy :
like many forms of bigotry it’s projection, + the cultural pressure of manogony. they’ve been taught manogony is their only option, so they shame anything outside of that. or they for some reason can’t fathom relationships/boundaries that operate differently than their own.
2025-07-26 01:14:57
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Chubbygoomba :
Poly people deal with jealousy and insecurity too. I won't speak for everyone, but for myself processing it is necessary and makes me a better person. mine often stems from wanting to be like their other partners (trait wise) but not having put the work in to be that way yet.
2025-07-25 13:11:59
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SublimeViking :
😂😂 anti poly people are pb&jelly and poly people are a fully put together club sand which with ham turkey cheese pesto sauce and tomato
2025-07-23 17:51:50
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KatieRuler :
never got it either. poly relationships sound so cool, like youre telling me that more than one person finds me attractive? yes please😌
2025-07-23 16:20:14
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Styx :
Bad experience that ruined my household, I'd say I'm indifferent
2025-07-24 17:25:04
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(ノ´ヮ`)ノ*: ・゚ :
hey guys im polyamorous and life is so normal, so so normal. keep living, youre doing fine
2025-07-23 17:00:50
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EchoScavenger :
nah i love y'all just not my cup of spiced tea
2025-07-24 02:43:42
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rhubarbfrog :
part of it is bc a lot of poly ppl aren’t conventionally attractive so they have this delulu idea that we can only get with ppl if we’re not their only partner
2025-07-23 17:17:47
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