@kenningtoncounseling: One of the keys to standing up to a narcissist sounds counterintuitive….its being okay “losing” #standingupformyself #narcissist #settingboundaries #narcissisticabuse #creatorsearchinsights
Absolutely They’re chasing dopamine through creating conflict; the winning gives them a massive hit
2025-07-24 20:00:18
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Wellbeing :
The only you win is to walk away
2025-07-24 00:19:43
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MARVA M :
it took me wayyyyy to long to figure this out. But now that I have my life is changing.
2025-07-24 23:21:05
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sheRa :
Everything is literally your fault. Everything. bottom to top front to back, no matter what they never did anything wrong.
2025-07-24 04:46:54
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🌻Katie🌻 :
I can not stop. 22 years. Idk what to do. I need therapy and I don’t want that either! Why am I doing this to myself?! I know it’s happening and I’m doing nothing. Arguing, yelling and crying! I can not stop! I try so hard. Some days are better than others. Damn. 😮💨
2025-07-24 09:13:39
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Dori :
Absolutely. It is a serious disorder and the sooner we realize that those relationships will never be normal or healthy the better it is for us to move on.
2025-07-23 20:13:52
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Megan Dana🆘 :
Not entirely true. I took my narcissist to court last week and I won. He did try to change reality, but the judge wasn't having it.😂
2025-07-24 02:47:10
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Mario | Live Authentic :
Sound like politicians
2025-07-24 20:33:44
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- K Y - :
Jordan, I have been dealing with this from my mother my whole life & I just asked my best friend yesterday like make it make sense & then boom here you are explaining it exactly how I needed to understand it! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!!
2025-07-24 21:22:35
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Sunnysaysmeh :
you are not a human being to a narcissist. the only human being in their world is them. In their world everyone exists for them and the moment you don't you become the enemy. there is sidekick and there is bad guy and there is no middle ground.
2025-07-24 15:21:42
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A Stinky Rat :
Show no emotion.
2025-07-23 23:42:30
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RelentlessPitbull :
They can deny & ignore all they want! The courts won’t! That’s why the prisons are full of Narcs! 💯💯💯
2025-07-24 09:07:23
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Rebekah Roberts :
A narc I knew was upset because several women he had been dating posted in a group about his unethical/red flag behavior. He was upset bc they were “ruining his reputation”. Said it was lies. He showed me the texts. Everything those women said WAS TRUE. I’m like are we looking at the same texts… cuz they aren’t telling a single lie? What reality are you in??
2025-07-23 21:41:51
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Amber Argyle :
I’ve gone no contact. It’s too damaging.
2025-07-24 16:41:50
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Vote blue 🆘🇺🇸💙 :
He threw away the camera after he realized I have video evidence of his actions.
2025-07-24 03:21:05
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Shimei_Empress :
They are extremely antagonistic and aggravatingly insidious. And their self esteem is non existent
2025-07-24 06:28:44
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justamum2kids :
My mantra with how my father in law treats me. “I will not set myself on fire to keep someone else warm.”
2025-07-24 18:09:48
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jessaofficinalis :
If you have to fight them (like in court), the only way to win is with receipts. Document EVERYTHING. Prove reality.
2025-07-24 14:45:36
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Sam Ray :
I just go “mhm😐, mhm😐, ok😐” until they stop talking
2025-07-24 02:37:47
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Ann :
1000 percent!
2025-07-24 18:58:30
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Kali Wallace :
And radical acceptance that You. Can. Not. Change. Them. Ever.
2025-07-24 15:04:27
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Cabinfever :
I totally agree with you. But, I have been able to keep my ex slightly accountable by making all communication through the OFW app in writing, and involving third parties. He still lies to these third parties but at least his behavior towards me is civil.
2025-07-24 03:20:16
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RebeccaElise :
okay so what do we do as a country to do this to a narcissist?
2025-07-23 22:47:06
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Purple_Ember :
He is either defensive or crumbles into a pile of self-hatred or shame. So it’s clear I’m going to be the villain in his story. And I’m ok with that if I get to live my life.
2025-07-24 12:06:57
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Liza Adams :
I always think of Adele’s “To Be Loved” where she says “I will choose to lose it’s a sacrifice, but I can’t live a lie, let it be known, let it be know that I tried.” And it brings me a lot of peace
2025-07-24 11:42:02
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