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Patricke Georgeakeem :
The actual point is to dehumanize men, it’s simple. They’re pushing an agenda that men are incapable of love so the sole reason to be with a man is about what he can provide you (usually monetarily). Literally the girlbossification of traditional relationships. The Flawed Villain went viral for this kind of content
2025-07-24 06:11:44
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✨CJ ✨ 🧠📚🖤🐰 :
Bioessentialism :(
2025-07-23 21:56:40
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Olivia June | SAHM 🌴🌺 :
The only way I’ve found to actually model this was to not marry this type of person. I dated like a million kinds of men and about 90 % of them were like this. My husband was like a breath of fresh air, that’s why I knew I wanted to marry him (along with a million other reasons) so now my daughters will have an example in their lives of healthy masculinity. Of how they should be treated in a relationship. That your partner should be your best friend and will be the one to hold you up through post partum and the death of your parents. We both also plan on having multiple discussions with them on what to pursue, what to look out for and avoid/what to keep an eye on. Because you are ultimately 100% better off being single than in a relationship like this. And there is also nothing wrong with being single than
2025-07-24 11:23:46
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#2pussygetter :
This is called heterofatalism what you’re referring to
2025-07-25 18:05:42
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Maile 🌙 :
You’re so right. It’s unfortunately so common but that Doesn’t mean it should be accepted. (Side note where’s your necklace from? 😭)
2025-07-23 21:59:15
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Jash :
I think sometimes it comes from bad past experiences with men; which, as I have distanced from those relationships, I empathize with more and more. I’ve been in relationships where their past negative experiences dictated levels of trust and expectation from me and had to cope with that (to varying levels of success).
2025-07-25 04:01:08
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Emily 📚🌲🧄 :
Thank you for this!! I see so much of this in dating discourse about how men should be paying for everything because they’re not going to do equal housework/put in equal effort in general, and I think approaching dating that way is just cheating yourself out of finding a partner who WILL do those things. They’re out there—you don’t have to settle for not paying for your dinner in exchange for mediocre-to-poor treatment
2025-07-25 15:10:51
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ChrisLew :
I really like the necklace!
2025-07-24 17:29:06
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Cara :
My standards are through the roof but I think we are also acknowledging that many men don’t do the bare minimum
2025-07-25 12:57:12
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annie :
"all men are bad" is just "boys will be boys" repackaged to appeal to feminism
2025-07-23 23:43:49
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🤨 :
Exactly, this is how I feel when women say all men cheat, like it’s genetically hardwired into them. They are capable of change and they are capable of being better
2025-07-23 22:21:20
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user562687094829 :
Exactly, if you constantly tell straight women that their only options are be mistreated or be alone forever, a lot of them are going to make the decision, consciously or not, that they’d rather not be alone. How is that helpful to anyone? It’s just a way to get a quick hit of superiority while maintaining the feeling that you’re somehow helping people.
2025-07-24 03:26:17
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julia 🍉 :
infantalization of the patriarchy is such a real problem. i see this also with r*pe and SA, "real men don't do this" "only little boys act like that" hey, no. these are real, grown ass men acting like this. these are fully cognizant people capable of inflicting real pain and suffering. MEN do these things. let's be fr
2025-07-23 21:58:55
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ruby (taylor’s version) :
exactly, no male baby comes out with a predisposed hatred for women, they actively choose that and that should anger/bother you more
2025-07-24 01:23:00
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#1 :
"unfortunately I have a boyfriend" sybau
2025-07-24 11:06:31
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˚₊‧꒰ა May ໒꒱ ‧₊˚ :
yes! I consider myself a radical feminist but I butt heads with other radfems abt this sometimes. I firmly believe that teaching young women that all men will treat us like this is a BAD idea. We're basically telling straight women to chose between never having romantic love or being treated poorly, and most people want romantic love at some point i their lives, so yeah it's basically teaching them to settle for poor treatment 😮💨
2025-07-24 05:35:31
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scorpiahhh :
this is how I feel w/ a lot of convo around the 50/50 stuff. part of the rational for not doing 50/50 financially is that women are burdened w/ disproportionate responsibility re: domestic labor, childrearing, & even the emotional load in the relationship. instead of prioritizing ways of reorganizing relationship structures so things are more equitable, they just accept that men they choose to partner w/ will not contribute equally in any capacity. that it is just an impossibility. so, to make up for it, he contributes fully financially bc it's only fair. & that is only fair if a man genuinely is unwilling to contribute 50/50 beyond financials, but things do not have to be that way. you do not have to partner w/ a man who is unwilling to contribute in those ways. you're choosing to do that & finding it acceptable for him to lack in those ways as long as he pays for it.
2025-07-24 21:19:07
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I_nowa_guy :
Your comments at 1:30 saying how this also harms men stands out to me. Rhetoric like this mindset makes me feel like I am not worth simply for being a guy.
2025-07-26 16:44:58
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