@samlow_and_samlow: Can narcissists really change? The short answer is No. Narcissists rarely change on their own, because their survival depends on staying exactly who they are. What could force change? Removing their supply. If the people around them, the enablers, the fixers, the forgivers, begin to heal and walk away, the narcissist is left without control, without fuel. So theoretically yes, they might change... but only when they have NO ONE LEFT TO MANIPULATE. This isn’t about fixing the narcissist. It’s about healing the people around them. Tag someone who needs to hear this. #narcissism #narcissist #abusedvictim #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabuserecovery #HealingJourney #petrasamlowwellness #healingprocess #abuse #understandingnarcissism #selfworth #toxicrelationship #healing #narc #npdawareness #healingtiktok #empath #empathy
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Thursday 24 July 2025 09:31:50 GMT
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Martina :
yes, they can be fixed..
I learned that narcissistic people are governed by 3 demons.
Leviathan, caos pride and confusion.
Delilah, manipulation and deceit.
Jezebel, control and domination.
You have to pray and rebuke them in the name of Jesus!
2025-07-24 20:02:47
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Roseann Carpenter :
There is a huge male narcissistic collapse going on right now! Lol
2025-07-24 12:40:07
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shiku liz :
absolutely 💯 enablers make them thrive if they see their mask and walk away the narcissist will have no choice than to change
2025-07-26 10:47:13
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𝓜𝓮𝓵 | 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱 & 𝓬𝓸𝔃𝔂 :
They need deliverance as it's a demonic spirit controlling the person.
2025-07-24 11:08:51
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Imba :
Everything is possible by the mercy of the Holy Spirit
2025-07-24 16:05:15
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Koolcatz :
my ex narc changed for his new supply
2025-07-25 02:51:58
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mels718 :
I’m watching my ex-narcissistic partner on his 5th partner, 3rd engagement and it’s the same relationship every time. Same routine, different GF
2025-07-24 09:50:14
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Michelle Mobley 📷 🇬🇧 :
I love that response. But I’m not going to lie and I know I sound cuckoo when I say this, but I did see a demon on the back of my narcissist and it’s scared the living daylights out of me. God showed me that for a reason I left the relationship immediately afterwards.
2025-07-24 13:32:56
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katerinaT :
Wouldn't self love make that change??? I mean, becoming a narcissist comes of a place of abuse. Low self worth, neglect etc etc... If they learn to love themselves, wouldn't that "fix" their relationships with the rest of the world??? I kinda think that self love is the answer to everything.
2025-07-25 21:23:54
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66joanna :
Right answer. They don't want to change.
2025-07-25 05:56:02
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Xy12uvk :
All people are Narcissist but in different level 😁
2025-07-24 13:46:47
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Curiouslyobserving :
Yes they can. We’ve given them an out by saying no. When a person in a position of power (Dr) makes these statements. They encourage and ensure the behavior. Narcissism is selfishness and lack of awareness. They need to be held accountable.
2025-07-25 14:27:57
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𓋹 Monique Douglass 𓋹 :
Not true. Absolutely not true. Narcissists are the antichrist cloaked in light while crucifying truth. Repent. surrender. and God will save. Then they change. My husband is testimony to this. I wrote a book, Surviving the narcissist
2025-07-24 12:05:44
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B💕 :
They have zero empathy, they only think about serving themselves. They will lie and cheat to get what they want and they’ll never change.
2025-07-24 12:08:02
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theodordamboudis :
Hundred percent agree it’s the enablers that keep them going and provide their supply. A narcissist will always seek out enablers😬
2025-07-24 11:16:48
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Kristy Stephens :
She is correct. They have no love for anyone but themselves
2025-07-26 01:32:19
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Gnr3000 :
I made sure I left n not told her truth all her bs I didn't want her to learn n changed..I let her blame me..yrs yrs in she keep failed her relationship s n single good
2025-07-24 14:27:42
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Piya :
That is what I use to question before, The answer is So clear that they will never changed, The sadness and terrible thing is we cannot remove all enabler, because at first people don’t no them because they look and act like kindness helpers and good image to people or their new supplies so a Narcissist will be a lot in the world, they will drain good people to lose themselves. I hate a Narcissist.
2025-07-24 14:49:15
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stumpy 64 :
I have been there not going there again.? Thank God I moved on. I am very happy. I have all my money in order which I never told her about and I have been living in my beautiful beach property estate for 2 1/2 months now cannot say where it isquite private but yes what an experience
2025-07-25 20:49:31
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Anita :
În momentul în care un narc vede o schimbare în oamenii de lângă el ,se atacă singur și se îmbolnăvește grav.
2025-07-24 14:19:16
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aisharubama536 :
I love this fact... agree 💯 as a narcissistic abuse
2025-07-24 09:37:24
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Hadia :
The core belief of a narcissist is that they are always right and even if they know that they're not, they will never admit it due to their egos. A person can only change if they acknowledge their wrongdoings.
2025-07-25 03:55:38
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ilna coetzee :
Yes they can if you have strong faith and pray ask God in prayer to change them. There are some who did change and share info about their history
2025-07-26 08:05:44
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nonamejou :
They get worst with age and never get better NO MATTER WHAT
2025-07-25 04:28:25
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DogAteMyWookie :
that makes me sad for him... if you remove the enablers they'll claim you're controlling. I had to tell mine at the end .. if I was the abuser and I isolated him then how did he come home with so many sti's in one year forcing me to get checked more often.
2025-07-24 21:28:10
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