When people say "you'll have noone to look after you when you're old" are wild, like dude that's not a reason to have children!!
2025-07-24 18:21:09
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KB Heying 🍉🫒 :
I quite literally had a hysterectomy and people do that. "you'll regret it!" actually Cheryl, i no longer deal with devastating endometriosis, I regret nothing.
2025-07-24 14:46:01
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🍉Michelle Laura🍉 :
Or the “what if you meet someone who wants kids?” Then they’re not for me Karen 🤷🏻♀️
2025-07-24 18:10:42
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Death Star of David :
The number of times people have said this kind of stuff to me. The worst for me was, "when you hold your first born you'll change your mind." IM NOT GOING TO HAVE A KID JUST TO SEE IF I WANT KIDS! oy....
2025-07-24 15:38:10
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taylorcochran247 :
I never understood why people get upset over others not wanting kids. I have two, myself, and get why some people don’t want them. (I love my kids dearly, btw).
2025-07-24 18:47:24
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RaRa :
The number of times I’ve heard “oh it’s not too late” when I tell someone I can’t have kids and now don’t want them anyway because I’m too old. Like, ma’am. I am almost 46. No, thank you.
2025-07-24 14:53:14
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Maeg Sullivan :
I usually get to respond, "No. Always wanted them. But that choice was taken from me and I had to have a hysterectomy. But thanks for reminding me..." (not cancer)
2025-07-24 18:45:16
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Samantha J :
Kids are not on this earth to take care of their parents when they get old and it’s wild to me that people say “oh you’ll change your mind” 😑 just be supportive
2025-07-24 14:54:28
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Jenn LaRocque :
I guess I still need to grow up, going to be 45 soon and still dont want any. and Goddess honest, I thought you were like 28-30
2025-07-25 17:39:30
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Leah McDonnell :
Having kids so you have a caretaker when you’re old sounds like a pretty selfish reason to have kids. But, what do I know? I’m also a childless by choice 37 year old woman.
2025-07-24 15:12:51
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meablie :
I have a sibling that doesn't want kids of their own, but they adore mine, my youngest is basically their mini-me. 💕
2025-07-24 16:12:15
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Sleepy_kitty90 :
Best way to stop generational trauma is to stop the generations. It's exhausting enough trying to parent my parents
2025-07-24 15:02:37
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loki :
bro i keep telling people i never want to be pregnant bc i have so many physical problems and chronic illnesses and i know it would take a massive toll on my body and mind, but they just say “oh you may change your mind one day.” TF I WILL, LIKE?
2025-07-24 14:43:58
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Shauna Sauer :
The first time I heard a baby cry after I got my tubes tied I felt so happy that I won’t have to deal with that ever again. People need to mind their own business.
2025-07-26 14:26:22
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JenX :
I adore my kids (all grown), but I fully support people who don't want to! It's not a difficult concept, but some people just can't wrap their minds around people who have different life paths.
2025-07-24 18:27:56
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Eric📚 :
Yeah I get this too because I’m forty with only one child and no plans to have more..
2025-07-24 14:52:23
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tatemarie74 :
It’s horrifying to me how many people use that as the primary reason a person should have kids. If that’s the best part of being a parent then why…?????
2025-07-26 02:24:53
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Boodlepie🍉 :
If you aren’t 100% on raising a person then it’s a no don’t do it! I’m pregnant with my second and my god the body horror is there ❤️
2025-07-24 22:47:50
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Samantha JC (She\ Her) :
Why do these advocates of kids always assume that a child will be able, healthy & happy?
2025-07-24 15:55:11
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Xiang R Montalvo :
My mom and I have this conversation every so often. As her only child, I'm her only opportunity to have grandkids. However, not even considering the fact that I've held stern on not wanting kids but I have a condition that has me on meds that I would have to stop taking if I wanted to be pregnant, probably making my condition worse between being pregnant and not being able to take my meds...but she wants a grandchild...and to that I've said well, you should have had more than one child.
2025-07-25 10:00:25
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Cass :
My daughter doesn't want to bring a child into this world as it is. More to the point, her partner can't carry and my daughter is too concerned that mine and her own chronic conditions might be inheritable and we don't know it yet, along with all the ones we know are. I have always made it clear that any way she expands our family, whether partners, fostering, adopting, biological, randomly absorbing people into our family because they need a family, or fur covered family members will be loved and accepted.
2025-07-25 20:42:31
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Bridget Sullivan :
"you'll change your mind when you grow up" my silent gen great uncle told me that about 8 years ago in reference to my political views.....I was 35!!!! i feel ya love that is the most condescending thing for people to say to another person.
2025-07-25 03:44:19
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Cheyenne_Entertainment :
My comeback for the last one is always: "They have nurses at the NURSING home, you know".
2025-07-25 09:13:07
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Kelly Marie :
it annoys me to no end when they act like having kids is just so they can take care them when they are old
2025-07-24 20:34:30
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Jenessa Mercer :
Two of my besties do not want kids but they love my kids and spoil them. It’s okay to have a different goal in life that does not revolve around tiny humans. You go girl!!!!
2025-07-24 15:45:47
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