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horchatagirl7 :
Also normalize just telling them that they’re stupid. Stop bringing the whole internet into it we don’t gaf
2025-07-25 06:36:58
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Coral :
"weaponized incompetence" would mean he's smart enough to be manipulative. most of them just flat out suck.
2025-07-25 16:20:22
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itsquiteafunnystory :
& maybe you're normal stupid for not dumping him
2025-07-26 15:26:25
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DrOzzy :
Therapy speak becoming colloquial is one of the worst developments lol
2025-07-25 12:56:54
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EldritchSnake :
Sometimes it ain’t even incompetence in the videos it’s a different way of doing things and due to them not liking the way their husband does something they say things like this. As a gay person looking in to straight relationships it blows my mind how much y’all seem to hate each other
2025-07-25 16:05:26
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Bríg✨ :
my mom once sent my dad out for an acorn squash and he came back with a mango bc he had never seen an acorn squash and the sign was wrong in the store lmao. sometimes ppl make mistakes, you have to look at a pattern, not one action.
2025-07-25 12:46:06
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Sugarbeet :
Absolutely I’ve seen brilliance and because some lack the oppression a woman faces in her life and they don’t think outside the box esp if the man in question didn’t grow up poor or has sisters to do his bidding
2025-07-26 17:06:31
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Jojo :
I'm just gonna put this here and anyone who's been in the military tell me if I am lying. In basic training and AIT, we had to train and have a whole lesson on how to wash clothes, how to fold clothes, and how to tuck a bed. For uniformity? Yes. But also because A LOT of men, and women as well, did not know how to do the most basic of tasks. There are ppl in their 30s who haven't done something as simple as tucked a bed or wash clothes.
2025-07-25 13:05:54
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Austin Welby :
Hahah right I swear men are getting dumber and dumber
2025-07-25 15:02:12
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timisneato :
he is not weaponizing incompetence, he is just regular incompetent
2025-07-25 16:25:04
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Leelee :
I’d go so far as to say the even the ones using weaponized incompetence and just plain stupid because imagine at your grown age pretending like you don’t understand basic sh!t about life
2025-07-25 19:35:48
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liv dallas :
Yuppppp some of them are just dumb. Dont give him that much credit.
2025-07-25 21:44:38
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0_h1008 :
Sometimes the mess just doesn’t bother them. That’s it. They literally don’t care if it’s not clean. it is not about manipulating you.
2025-07-25 16:37:44
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Rachel :
I think for some men saying they intentionally fail to avoid stuff is giving them too much credit lol they just be dumb sometimes
2025-07-25 12:25:36
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mrnoname :
i think part of it is that a lot of people find being manipulated into wasting so much time and energy on a person an easier pill to swallow than the possibility that they ignored multiple red flags.
2025-07-25 11:48:54
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@camberry :
Speak for yourself. You might want to downplay the manipulation games men play, but just say you date me that are too dumb to know how to properly stack a dishwasher.
2025-07-25 00:14:17
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WisecrackingBlonde :
sincerely they are giving these guys way too much credit
2025-07-26 19:20:22
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Dev :
my dads a genius mechanical engineer. he put parsley in the oven thinking they were green beans.
2025-07-25 12:37:51
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Momo :
You dont have to be very smart to be manipulative. You just have to want something (like to not want to do the dishes so you do them bad on purpose)
2025-07-26 20:30:55
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Amanda :
No fr some of them are not bright enough for that lmfao
2025-07-26 03:27:12
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----Kati---- :
stupid=incompetence refusing to learn=weaponizing....... I'm not really sure what you're trying to get at here its literally the definition of weaponized incompetence
2025-07-25 16:19:36
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♪♡★bixoxtra★♡♪ :
also sometimes yall just have different experiences😭 my fiance didn’t grow up w a dishwasher, i did. when we first moved together he was BAD at loading the dishwasher so i taught him how to do it efficiently and now he ✨doesn’t suck at it✨
2025-07-25 20:54:50
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bimbushka :
I feel this when it is just some guy putting a pot of food directly in the fridge instead of in Tupperware. like that's such an non issue just ask him to put it in Tupperware lol
2025-07-26 21:27:16
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jess :
Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by just normal stupid
2025-07-27 03:40:19
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Glinda The Good Witch :
My husband is a wonderful person and I adore him… His standards are much lower than mine. So he would genuinely be okay with doing things the way he does them. He’s not trying to torture me. He’s lazy. It’s that simple lol
2025-07-27 02:33:23
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