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rain :
Personally, I hate it when people say, "everything happens for a reason." I understand the sentiment behind it as well as the attempt of comfort it gives, but I believe that it is heavily dismissive of your experience and your life, and anyone elses. You are undoubtedly allowed and valid to grieve the person you could/should have been. To grieve each and every dream, or a life you never had. People saying you should be "grateful" is not okay, either. Yes, there are people who have worse lives, but this is YOUR life. Your grief. Not theirs. When you talk about your day-to-day experiences, the attention should not shift to make you feel bad about those feelings, and onto something else. This is not about them, it is about you, and you deserve to have your feelings and your voice heard 💓 The majority of people who say, "everything happens for a reason," "there are people who have it worse," "be grateful," and etc, usually come from a place of privilege. Not always, but usually. The privilege to have the life they don't question. The privilege of having the ability to do the most basic tasks without thinking about it. Anyway, apologies for the rant, but you are entirely valid in your feelings and experiences 💗
2025-07-25 05:10:55
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brit brat 🤪 :
I know we don’t talk much anymore but I want you to know you have NEVER been an inconvenience to me. you were my bestfriend and I would’ve done anything for you. I love you and if you ever need to vent or anything I’m here for you.
2025-07-25 16:46:47
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Lindsay :
No literally it’s always this nagging little bug. Even when you catch a moment where it’s not at the forefront of your mind it can be in a second.
2025-07-25 15:36:49
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ft.maren :
no one should be trying to invalidate ur feelings bro!
2025-07-25 06:44:42
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user2517654591703 :
Would you like to describe your thoughts on what able bodied Lauran would have been? If so I would love to hear! But I do love this version ur personality is great!❤️
2025-07-25 08:34:21
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🐌💕 :
I know it’s not the same, but I struggle with cptsd and mental disability is similar in the way that I am always grieving who I could have been/ the life I could have had. It’s so real and it’s such a heavy feeling. Your words and very meaningful
2025-07-25 05:11:27
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Kattie :
first I wanna say your beautiful, second i want to say yes there might be people out there who have it worse but that doesn't mean u dont have the right to grieve. my husband has IO type 5 iv been with him for 12 years. he has to be assisted with showers, has to have special forks to eat and ect. my point is you have a right to have these thoughts and people should let you. I know my husband probably thinks that same but just doesn't say it. I will never tell someone with a disability that they shouldn't grieve not having a different life because if I was in your shoes I would think the same. I never understood how hard it is for people with disabilities until I met my husband. anyways let me get off my soap box lol. anyways ur not alone, but I hope you find comfort and I hope you find your person because they are out there.💜
2025-07-25 05:05:36
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CoffeeJelly :
I think your valid for your feelings, it's ok to feel tired and think like that sometimes because it's human to think like that yk?
2025-07-29 17:07:20
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Amanda 🍉🇺🇦 :
You’re allowed to mourn the life you feel you should’ve lived. Half of it is accessibility related
2025-07-25 16:06:54
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Muna :
You are so gorgeous Omgg! Love your eyebrows!❤️❤️❤️
2025-07-25 04:55:16
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Whatsit Tooya :
you're so real for this 💖💖. so many times people say I wouldn't change the way I am for anything or they say I wouldn't want to be able bodied..and I always find it so hard to believe
2025-07-25 14:59:46
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jimbariljr :
I’m with you 100% there I think about it all the time too
2025-07-26 08:30:02
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420.milq :
You’re not. I feel the same way too babe. Fuck this.
2025-07-25 05:09:25
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maria :
!!!!!!
2025-07-25 13:15:40
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Alliewheelz :
The thought is always. This wouldn’t take so much effort if I wasn’t disabled. Ever. Y. Day.
2025-07-25 05:12:07
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jimmychimichanga69 :
Toxic positivity honestly makes things worse. You are allowed to feel angry and every single feeling that you feel about your disability
2025-07-25 05:21:12
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Gimp Gump 🫡 :
I feel the same way. Even though I know I’m not alone, I often feel that way too. It’s a constant state of “what ifs.” I feel like it’s normal to wonder what it would be like to be able bodied. People that are able bodied don’t think about what it’s like to be disabled, which can happen at any time, but we can change our lives.
2025-07-25 20:34:39
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