@mike_on_parenting: Giving two quick choices does a few important things… - Limits our demands - Gives them freedom - Helps us remain in control Don’t overuse this strategy though or else they’ll become fatigued and will show you frustration. #positiveparenting #parentinghacks #parentingtips #parentingindonesia #parentinghack #parentingadvice #parentlife #fyp

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joyouscookie
Joyous cook :
Ten minutes before they have to come in: “do you want to come in now or in ten minutes?”
2025-07-27 21:33:28
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rose.miller381
Rose Miller :
tell them. don't ask them
2025-07-27 20:42:48
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ymychewycookie
tickles :
il have to try this to my "Mr No" 2 yr old! thank you Mike 😊
2025-07-29 00:23:46
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pattie1269
pattie1269 :
Back in the day we called this a forced choice. Works.
2025-07-27 12:35:24
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isabel.litzinger
Isabel Litzinger :
thank you for helping the new parents
2025-07-28 00:08:31
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echo.yo
ARY :
Thank you!
2025-07-28 02:28:59
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kin_g1885
VB :
Just tell what they are going to do
2025-07-26 17:57:26
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kathrynskinner812
kathrynskinner812 :
love this
2025-07-27 20:27:49
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twissta
twissta :
Brilliant advice! Such a keeper. Thx for sharing.
2025-07-25 10:43:22
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eco_fusion
Eco Fusion :
This worked for awhile now it’s a no to any choice
2025-07-26 03:41:44
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soniagarza05
Sonia Garza :
👏👏👏👏👏💯💯💯💯 great
2025-07-28 01:23:56
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juschln68
juschln :
Ohhh, good idea👍🤓
2025-07-27 22:25:17
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monserrat2140
Monserrat :
I don't give choices I just tell them what they need to do and they do it they want to eat they want to have a home they want a cell phone if you want running water they want electricity then they do as I tell them they live in my house and they know who parent in the house is
2025-07-28 02:27:37
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lightsvone
lightsvone :
And then what do I say when they say “whyy I don’t want tooo”
2025-07-25 15:28:48
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melkeller61
melkeller61 :
I do that to my husband and he picks one 🤣🤣🤣
2025-07-28 12:32:20
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mrspstso
MrsPSTso :
Ugh thx for the help
2025-07-28 00:51:05
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s07uck11
Jeff solucki :
you can tell she thought the iPad question sounded like a trap. can I really say no to that?
2025-07-28 22:26:48
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dieseldawg2021
DieselDawg2021 :
My kids say neither to the choices
2025-07-26 17:59:43
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sweet67chevy
Deana :
they will say. I don't want to do any of them things 💯
2025-07-28 12:32:47
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user805679468503
dorita :
Good advice but it’s important for children to have chores that they can do. And consequences if they don’t do them.
2025-07-28 17:23:38
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user73729191837365
user73729191837365 :
That doesn’t help
2025-07-28 19:27:15
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aggiesailor
Wesley :
it works. everyone in the home contributes
2025-07-28 11:05:26
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makinithappen10
user9244748879462 :
Love ❤️
2025-07-28 23:51:25
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sadkittyprincess
sadkittyprincess :
I have great niece and nephew who just love to help. We have to be good role models.
2025-07-28 03:12:41
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michaelny2001
Joe Shmoe :
Or just tell them, could you please set up the table? Thank you. If not.....
2025-07-27 12:55:14
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