@therapyjeff: 1. If you’re having serious doubts, here’s how I want you to bring them up: 2. Please don’t break up with me unless you’ve already… 3. If you decide to end things, here’s how I’d prefer you do it: 4. I’d rather be broken up with on a… 5. If possible, please avoid breaking up with me on… 6. Here’s where I’d prefer the breakup happen: 7. This is how I’d like to handle hooking up right before or after the breakup: 8. If it happens, please don’t… 9. Here’s how I’d like you to explain it: 10. Here’s what not to say to me: 11. If we break up, here’s what I might struggle with most: 12. Here’s what kind of closure feels best to me: 13. How I’d like to handle shared logistics after a breakup: 14. Here’s how I want to handle the breakup on social media: 15. Anything else I want you to know about breaking up with me? #MentalHealth #therapy #relationshiptips #datingadvice #dating
My partner of almost 8 years broke up with me while she was out of town, on New Year’s Eve, via text message without ever mentioning she was unhappy in the relationship. Completely blindsided me. I wish we would have had this conversation.
2025-07-26 14:25:20
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travelama :
How I want to be broken up with: I don't.
2025-07-28 01:21:46
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SmellRanger :
Unfortunately sometimes they might use this kind of info to hurt you, as breaking up does not typically have this level of decency and communication or you probably wouldn’t be breaking up.
2025-07-26 18:29:50
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Nicoletok :
Even after asking to not be blindsided and for him to let me know his doubts beforehand, he still blindsided me. We can ask but they have to be capable of 1) listening and 2) following through
2025-07-26 14:46:05
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HawaiiKaiKai :
OMG! This is my favorite video you ever made! 😳
2025-07-27 21:34:58
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lesbian panic :
Told my ex to please not say one specific thing to me and that exactly what she said😭
2025-07-27 08:57:12
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beesandfluteman :
This needs to be a thing
2025-07-26 20:51:03
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hrnwolf :
My last partner (we were living together) went away while I was in the hospital visiting my father with cancer. A few days later he told me he wanted to come back... lol
2025-07-26 19:07:31
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Kitty M845 :
that she was incapable of a single one of these confirms I did the right thing 🙄
2025-07-27 18:24:08
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Gloria 😚 :
This has me smiling from within! 😃
2025-07-26 19:17:06
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AJ :
this is genius 👏
2025-07-27 01:38:45
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Sammie :
Does this apply to dating before commitment, too?
2025-07-26 22:07:33
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apenasmaisuma13 :
doesn't matter, i'd flip out anyway and make a mess out of it 😬
2025-07-26 17:54:50
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Cooper 🫶🇦🇺 :
I don’t need to think about this bc we’re not breaking up
2025-07-28 02:47:01
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