m1ssmelancholy
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Kermylastemail :
Lmao being villainized as a literal CHILD because I didn’t regulate my fathers emotions for him. HUH?!
2025-07-28 04:42:40
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cuchie_cuchi_ :
I don’t know how I survived the hell of being bullied at school and then coming home to this
2025-07-29 07:37:04
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Nina:3 :
Oh so did we all live the same life 😭😅
2025-07-29 19:36:41
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Darling Tator Tot :
Is this fucking play about me?
2025-07-27 01:25:15
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+*Mars+* :
Who else’s parents gaslit them into thinking their emotions were invalid 💔💕 I was literally bullied and harassed daily by my own family :)
2025-07-26 20:26:58
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em :
Bro r u in my fucking walls……
2025-07-27 16:16:46
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m1ssmelancholy :
unrecognized afab autistic 🤝 developing bpd
2025-07-26 20:23:10
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sad cat :
YES
2025-07-29 17:17:22
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Danni :
me except i had meltdowns at school almost every day and nobody even cared to ask if i was okay (ref to caption)
2025-07-29 23:34:10
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RizaBunansa :
Children are supposed to be children, not parentified, wtf was wrong with your parents? Respectfully, a mother of three 😐
2025-07-29 14:27:44
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Celine<3 :
*me, developing an illness that stems from childhood trauma and neglect* my mum: “so you’re trying to call me a bad parent” I MEAN IF THE SHOE FITS.
2025-07-29 10:51:49
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Neuro Ava :
abelism in our families is so sad
2025-07-28 20:54:36
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Eden & Niko :
"why don't you want kids?"
2025-07-29 09:49:03
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ice_cream2481 :
Me bc my dads mad that I didn’t help raise my sister “right” like soz I was busy raising myself
2025-07-29 17:27:26
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tamarindoisbetter :
Me, even as the youngest, just for being a girl. I acted like a child, looked feminine and I only liked feminine things but acted like my dad instead. So I would always get into trouble for taking after my family themselves , being like them and just not taking it. Since I wouldn’t give in at all, I didn’t understand any of it, I was just a child, I was confused. I didn’t even know what they wanted or how to do any of it and often straight up forgot about it, if not ignored it and went to my room to avoid it because I was so anxious. I always got into trouble and had to walk on eggshells. It only made me worse, and I would react, I would cry without breathing, get upset, self isolate, not want to talk, not want to be around them or something. I was getting bullied at the same time at school and struggling academically, yet never supported. Instead it was all ignored by not just my parents but my teachers too, and I was called dramatic, told to get over it or that it didn’t exist. My mom also focused more on my brother for having autism even though she never got him help and would complain of me having the same traits & issues he had but never able to accept I could have something too , instead just ignored me , left me to parent myself & said I was being defiant for it. I only naturally reacted, and it made me moody , skittish, scared, upset, on edge and never happy , I didn’t know how to control my emotions, cope or self regulate either , so it only made me worse and i just got punished for reacting in any way that wasn’t just being happy and taking it.
2025-07-27 18:41:58
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Hootle toot :
no bc I'm 23 so I still get "you need to be someone he can look up to" WHILE I also get "he's so much better at communicating than you are" 😭
2025-07-29 09:49:08
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Prickly Panik :
Ik ur talking about me bestie it's ok😝🤣even got the matching CPTSD and BPD to go with it🥲💅
2025-07-27 23:18:58
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mxdxlines :
fr like why was i taking care of a newborn at 8 and then going to learn about fractions. hello.
2025-07-27 21:43:50
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Reemu in Canada 🐈⬛🪴 :
my parents told me over and over that I was too emotional
2025-07-29 00:26:01
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food.librarian.13 :
& now both my dad and sister are mad at me for it??? like yall MADE ME THIS WAY? 😭
2025-07-27 12:26:18
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c :
I have a lot of empathy for my older sister. She was so young when she had to start taking care of us, and the woman who adopted us made her physically discipline us. Used to be mad at her for it but now I’m just mad that she was put into a parentified role at the age of 8. :/
2025-07-27 17:01:45
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Sprinkles :
and then beat the 💩 out of them
2025-07-27 14:01:28
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Ophelia/Bee/Bea🍉 :
Sshhhhh I don’t have time to think about this rn
2025-07-29 13:33:54
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couchpotatorob :
My mom did this to me and I'll never forgive her for it.
2025-07-29 11:51:44
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sparrow :
I am an adult, my mom used to tell me I need to put boundaries down bc I am a pushover and ppl pleaser and need to make decisions that favour me. started going to therapy for different reason, but my therapist helped me realize i was emotionally parentified and that it shouldn't be my job to help my mom emotionally regulate and "pat her head" when she's sad or anything. Started putting down boundaries, now my mom hates me bc "i act like i am not even part of the family" and "i only care about myself and not abt the ppl who live with me" just bc i don't listen to her everyday rambling about how mean everyone is to her anymore.
2025-07-29 08:11:00
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