@realitycheck660: I’ve never been a fan of leaving people on “delivered.” I always made an effort to respond as soon as I could because that’s how much I cared. But not anymore. It started with one person who constantly left my messages on delivered for hours, every single day. I tried to understand. I told myself he was just busy with work. But then I found out he had time to chat with a colleague. That’s when I realized,it wasn’t about being busy. He just wasn’t interested in talking to me anymore. Now, I’ve picked up the same habit. I leave people’s messages on delivered for hours… even days. It’s sad, really how the enthusiasm I once had to connect with others has slowly faded. I rarely reach out now. I always assume they’re busy, that they have their own lives and problems to deal with. Or maybe I’ve simply grown up. Maybe I’ve learned to accept that people will reach out only when they want to, or when they have the energy. And silence? It no longer scares me like it used to, not for someone who’s grown so used to emotional chaos. #fypage #feelings #truth
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Saturday 26 July 2025 23:19:56 GMT
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𝓐𝓼𝓷𝓪, 𝐋𝐏𝐓 :
The embarrassment you feel for messaging first and get delivered for hours.
2025-07-28 13:05:17
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V.. :
I just hate it why people with this kind of energy cant find people with the same energy 🥺
2025-08-01 07:06:19
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𝒥𝒽ℯ𝓈𝒶 🌸 :
I’m done always being the first to reach out, only to be left on delivered. From now on, you won’t hear from me again. You’ll no longer experience the warmth I used to give.
P.S. This is about a one-sided friendship slowly sinking. Because no matter how much I gave, nothing ever came back.
2025-07-27 19:42:53
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Adrian21_ :
and the worst thing if you have to meet them they are always on their phone 💔
2025-07-29 04:27:42
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missonigiri95 :
“my arms grew tired from constantly reaching so i wrapped them around myself and allowed them to rest”
2025-07-28 23:32:10
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RegineCarla :
Why do I have to love less to be loved more?? 🙁
2025-07-29 11:41:15
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beabadoobiix :
Silence screams louder than words.
2025-08-01 02:03:34
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Aliza_ deDios☕ :
when you start to notice that changes they have right now or the hype they have right now is also caused by your constant availability that they don't take into consideration how you somehow make everytime they need you so easy, you also forget yourself that you yourself can make room for someone you really treat so important because you, yourself can do it easily for them. sometimes little things are just tolerated until it piled up and end up make you tired, not because you want to, but because it is the only choice left to choose.I myself dont always available, I just make time, and I forget that about myself until I had to right now.
and maybe my choices that I had made is somehow right because I see how free they are that I let them go, they can freely live and freely just do things anytime to their friends.And that's my wake up call, they had a time and they just don't have it freely when I'm with him. And a wake up call to my past self that I'm not also available and I also make time because its them.
2025-07-29 08:04:20
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maryjoymolina_09 :
The embarrassment you feel when they are the first to chat with you, but after you reply to that message, they leave you delivered.
2025-07-29 15:58:48
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mekku :
Some lessons really do have to be learned the hard way and it hurts.
2025-07-29 14:28:18
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cidy :
i used to be such an understanding person, but honestly, it’s exhausting. i kept telling myself maybe they’re just going through something or they’re busy every single damn time haha. i’m tired of always being the one to reach out to people i once loved and wanted to keep in my life. like yeah, you say you love me, but the way you act doesn’t match that at all.
2025-07-30 12:30:03
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Ubas :
this is exactly what I am experiencing right now
2025-07-30 12:10:21
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marnielim_ :
they always reach out first. i always reply happily but then get dry responses or get react-zoned. that’s why i never message first. like, why message in the first place. lol.
2025-07-29 03:00:27
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Jay Guerrero :
Every time a girl hurts me, La La Lost by Niki finds me again. She gets me in ways no one else does 😔🎧
2025-07-29 18:19:23
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🌸 :
i was the one who always writes first and pretty a lot, but after than one person really left me, i started spending more time with myself and now it feels harder to start responding immediately. they never did that to me, so now i can't answer even after a few days, even tho they wait and don't like it when I'm like this
2025-07-29 05:50:36
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wvndv_ :
Can relate- now I’ve become someone who never reach out and replies when I want to. I disappear at slightest convenience
2025-07-29 17:46:36
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s🦦 :
Just in case nobody ever tells you, you’re not alone. I know how it feels like not being prioritised. they dont put you first.. lesson learned. Now i only use my energy to those who worth it. I hope you’re doing okay. You will eventually
2025-07-28 17:17:06
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nhodoubt :
Yea, I’m done responding as soon as I can.
2025-07-28 17:24:30
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lumpiang shanghai :
it no longer scares me 🥺 FELT THIS SO HARD😭😭😭
2025-07-28 14:45:40
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Strawbreyyy_ooo :
yea, I’m done responding as soon as I can (2)
2025-07-28 17:51:11
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⋆˚✿˖° :
he taught me to never let my walls down and to not rely on anyone. and now, i am never letting anyone close to me. ever again.
2025-07-29 10:13:40
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Kimmy 🦋 :
pero diko magawa sa kaniya yung pandededma niya kasi hindi ako ganun.
2025-07-28 08:57:05
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Calayag Charry :
It hurts but silence means the love you gave is no longer mutual.
2025-07-28 21:01:43
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