Y’all are weak bro, being kind and patient is the bare minimum. It’s not our partners responsibility to baby us when we have episodes and cuss them out. Learn to control it. Don’t be a terrible person.
2025-07-28 12:34:18
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✨️ Bel ✨️ cosplay & tutorial :
yall, please do NOT date unless you are actively treating your BPD. therapy, medicine, and personal growth to help control it. true love is knowing that just because someone "can" take your shit, doesn't mean they should "have" to all the time - leaving can be kind, too.
2025-07-28 13:38:00
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Swan :
I will never stop trying to show this girl she is worthy of love and deserving of care.
2025-07-31 18:55:44
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Evelyn☮︎︎٭ :
because love is supposed to be unconventional if you truly loved someone you'd understand that they can't control what they are feeling or doing having bpd shouldn't and doesn't define who you are
2025-07-27 04:27:02
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˙ᵕ˙ :
i treated my best friend horrible, i mentally abused him for months and when i can crying to him, i explained everything, the why but i took accountability and he said nothing but “it’s all good man, do we get to be friends again now?”. Never in my life have i felt such a gut punch, that a man who i treated so poorly could turn around so easily and tell me it’s okay, he just missed me
2025-07-28 12:27:05
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𝒻𝓇𝑒𝒶𝓀𝓎 Mimic_Cockroach :
was dating someone with bpd for three months but it got to a point they weren’t even remotely trying to return the comfort or support i gave. I had a mental breakdown and both them and their friend made it out to where i was the problem i couldn’t take it anymore but i tried and truely loved them
2025-07-27 18:00:31
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Mykel :
Wife has BPD and she always asks me why I’m still with her even on her bad days. My response is always “because if I’m not there on your worst days then I don’t deserve to be with you on your best days”. I also made her cry when she found out I did extensive research on BPD so I could better understand what she’s going through and how to help. We’re going strong on 5 years together
2025-07-29 02:54:46
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𓂃 ⸝⸝ icarusᵎᵎ ꒰ 🕷️ ๑ ⋆˚. :
she forgave me after saying the worst fucking shit in the world, she’s my angel. I still don’t deserve her and she still loves me, tells me everyday.
2025-07-28 11:01:21
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tysann :
It’s so hard too because he married me and understands my triggers and sees me in ways I didn’t know I could be seen
2025-08-02 03:08:59
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jayden 🏳️⚧️ :
the last relationship i was in with someone with bpd they mentally and emotionally abused tf out of me and tried to destroy my image publicly
2025-07-28 13:52:37
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Leonas :
my bf and i both have BPD, and i think this is the healthiest ive ever been. We recognize when the other person is trying to split or push away and know how to calm each other down even down to how to hug or hold hands in a calming way. Its so beautiful but also I just cant help but wonder how he loves me when I’m constantly in an emotional war with myself. I love him 😭
2025-07-27 14:25:47
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vio :
would a person w bpd accidentally cheat-
2025-07-28 14:16:28
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1# •+𝖕𝖙𝖛 𝖘𝖙𝖗𝖔𝖐𝖊𝖗⦻•🎸 :
I hope you stay together forever lol i just got broken up with cause i split on him. Thanks mikey.
2025-07-27 23:33:28
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the_oneandonly.Dawson :
Because love is supposed unconditional to be real and and if you truly care for somone and love them for them you understand that the can’t control and and handle there emotions And you should love them for them not just seeing bpd and other things you should love the good and the bad
2025-07-28 07:25:10
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brige <3 :
as someone with diagnosed bpd, we need to take responsibility sometimes. yes, we’ve been through trauma, but that’s not an excuse for poor behaviour. i honestly don’t think someone should try to date unless they are actively trying to work on their symptoms because it is unfair to other people and it’s okay if not everyone else understands because it IS such a complex and intense disorder and it is also difficult for the other person too. not saying people with bpd are bad people or all of us act the same way as there is also quiet bpd, and just to be clear, im not saying we don’t deserve love or anything like that at all. im just saying that we should try to work on ourselves for both our benefit and our partners. i know it may seem impossible, but it’s not! managing your symptoms through dbt and other things is possible! i hope everyone heals xx
2025-08-02 00:34:45
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Your mom :
How do I give her space when she’s splitting I’ve never been with someone with bpd
2025-07-28 17:03:28
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🦇 :
i dont deserve my sweet boy 🙁
2025-07-31 07:33:13
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Lezorp Glames :
it takes a beautiful person to love a rose after being pricked by its thorns
2025-07-29 10:40:18
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𝓌𝒶𝓋𝓎𝒶𝓃𝒶𝒽𝒽 ❤︎︎ :
my ex had bpd, i loved her unconditionally and she still left me in the end and i still dont know why. i really cared about her and i still do
2025-07-27 23:54:09
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[🏛️🕯️] KAYDEN💥💜 🆖 :
I wish I could understand people with BPD, my ex had it and at first I was really supportive but then I couldn’t handle it anymore and I feel bad
2025-07-27 17:57:54
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C.E.O OF BOXCASE🧳📦 :
i constantly push him away and not tell him whats wrong, because im so worried something will go wrong and he'll leave again. i dont trust the happiness. but i trust him, and im learning how to be better. i hope he knows that
2025-07-27 13:03:16
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Kai / Fang :
My partner brings this up to me all the time and it makes me so sad. Like what do you mean nobody else has ever put in the effort to even try to understand? Hes not hard to love at all. Hes so so easy to love. And understanding the way his brain works and affects him is not a difficult thing to learn when u truely TRUELY love someone. I genuinely cant fathom how some people are too ignorant to try and see it from a different perspective to their own. It breaks my heart that this is a universal experience. To all my bpd baddies out there, you will find ur person. Ur not impossible or hard to love, i promise 🫶
2025-07-28 12:14:26
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gah !! ★ :
what is wdym??
2025-07-29 22:50:06
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V ~ ☆ ( Ishmaels Version ) :
she gave up.on me!!! 😛😛 Holy fhck I am not okay I've been crying non stop for a week guys WHY CAN I NOT BE NORMAL OH MY DAYS
2025-07-28 01:47:26
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nirvana :
i will always love him no matter what he says or does because i've seen the real him and i know he loves me too
2025-07-27 13:42:31
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