I’m waiting 12 weeks bc my husband and I are BOTH terrified of cuff tears!!
2025-07-27 20:17:39
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Andrea :
This makes me want to cry a little … but I’m day 17 so lots of things make me cry right now 😭 This has been my biggest worry of this whole thing because that was pretty great for me prior to surgery - aside from sometimes being painful and causing massacre bleeding (🤪) … I am so worried it’ll never be as good again and I don’t know when I’m even going to want to try because yea, the while cuff thing 😫 I really hope it gets better for you!!!
2025-07-27 20:17:27
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beffy1223 :
I'll never do it again lol my husband can have a girlfriend 😩(joking ) he's been great
2025-07-27 20:46:07
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OlgaK :
I feel this so much! I am 6 months in…my oncologist recommended using lube…for me it was a game changer. After this many months my body is finally reacting the way it did before surgery but lube helped so much when we first got intimate again.
2025-07-27 20:18:08
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Lisa Bean :
Thank you for this! I’m at 7 weeks, cleared by my doc, but husband and I agree to wait until at LEAST week 12. And we are OKAY with that. He’s scared to “break” me. lol. Cheers for good relationships!!
2025-07-28 00:34:26
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Helen H :
gosh, this is making me nervous. im 3 weeks post today. I did ask my doc about tear and she laughed and said its not going to tear. but I think I'll live in fear of that happening.
2025-07-28 13:06:58
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Maemae :
Thank you for sharing about this topic. We talked about this last Monday and we both agreed that we have to do it when I'm comfortable doing it. Comments and how your experiences teach me how I take care of myself after post op.
2025-07-28 02:32:36
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Sweet Pea :
Don't rush into it. If the cuff tears you will have to start from Day 1 again.
2025-07-28 02:25:00
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Cate :
I’m scheduled for a hysterectomy in November. I am single and not dating so I’m literally just going to wait minimum one year 😂😂
2025-07-29 23:33:00
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Kitkat :
im 3 weeks tomorrow and from the start my husband said we are waiting a year lol he did alot of research so he could understand whats going on and I love him for it. ❤️❤️❤️I love your videos by the way, they have been very helpful.
2025-07-27 20:29:01
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LI MO :
am also on 98th day ..
sometime am okey sometime am just off with lots of pain..
you keep encouraging me thanks
2025-07-27 20:30:43
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.christa :
This is my biggest fear 😫 I’m only 8 weeks and waiting until 12 at the very min but honestly might wait a little longer I’m just so nervous with all the hororor stories I’ve heard. My husband is more then supportive and willing to wait as long as I need but my surgeon told us some toys we can get to help we might try as well
2025-07-29 05:39:43
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MagwaLlala :
thanks Kelly hun for sharing your experience 😘
2025-07-28 18:57:52
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Gabrielita :
😂😂 The face expressions
2025-07-29 02:39:48
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Kails :
I'm at 4 weeks today and the thought of trying literally is making me ill 😂 Don't need to worry about it at least til 8weeks.
2025-07-29 03:07:42
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Michele Southard :
I’m 15 wks post op - got the all-clear at 8 wks. I was terrified, but we are good. I’m still nervous and hesitant, but it’s getting better. A glass of wine (or 2) helps me relax a bit and not be so scared.
2025-07-28 21:33:45
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NikkiA :
Even by myself, it feels different…especially the closing credits…almost “muted”…but the one show at 7.5 weeks, he was more nervous than I was also
2025-07-28 02:59:25
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Stephanie Dias :
I am almost 2 weeks post OP and I’m literally terrified LOLOL I’ve seen so many stories about this 😭 😭 I’m in no rush tbh. My husband is pretty supportive as well. But I am so so so scared to do the deed when the day comes, very far from now lol
2025-07-29 21:19:11
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user2765689490847 :
Thank you so much for sharing!
2025-07-29 03:16:01
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Jennifer :
Six weeks my doctor told me nothing up there for at least 12 weeks
2025-08-03 04:41:53
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JudyJetRed 🇨🇦 :
I’m 20 weeks and terrified. We got it in but no movement, just to get comfortable but I’m not ready for the full deed. Thinking maybe at 24 weeks? We can do other activities to pleasure eachother for now.
2025-07-28 15:19:52
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jameybeharry :
10 weeks hysterectomy an am so scared to do it...I don't want to...
2025-07-28 20:51:49
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F :
I am in the same place you are. I have an horrible pain since my husband & I try to have son fun, I’m taking medication too🥺🥺🥺
2025-07-28 22:53:22
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Vickie Ann Cleveland :
I was given the ok - tried once and I was scared and it wasn’t worth it
2025-07-29 15:41:11
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Farrell Hogenauer | REALTOR® :
This scares me. I have intercystisal cystitis too. I’m going to start pelvic floor therapy as a preventative when my doctor clears me. I’m 2 weeks post on today. So scared. Thank you for your honesty. ❤️
2025-08-07 01:02:58
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