@unplanned_podcast: full story: I (45f) am also a plus-size woman so obviously my husband (44m) has a type. I discovered he's having an affair with this plus-size woman (49f). I was venting to both my sister (42f) and my best friend (44f). They're both thin women. My best friend had my back. A few days later, my sister said it was a bit hypocritical for me to talk about any woman like that. She asked me if I would be disappointed if my daughter (19f) were to talk about any woman like that. My sister also asked what if someone talked about my daughter like that. In most situations, I would agree that fat shaming is 100 % wrong. But this woman is screwing my husband and I'm insulting her behind her back. Am I the asshole ? #unplannedpodcast @matt_and_abby