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Toko :
this is true, i just started taking care of myself and letting people show me love in however they wanted to, and when i ask for something and someone can't give it i dont resent them anymore, i accept them as what they can be in my life. I still feel loved because now i have people who reach out etc but at different levels and i just interact with the accordingly. if i like someone more than they like me, i go inwards and reflect why im chasing etc. i stopped doing that naturally now. if someone doesn't reciprocate i lose interest in having that reciprocity from them
2025-07-28 20:21:15
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samanzaaa :
“Its drowning them and they cant tell you that it is” 👏🏻
2025-07-28 11:43:23
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aurie not ari :
They can only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves!!!
2025-07-31 20:22:33
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Ftaiwo :
“If they wanted to they would” gang ain’t gon like this
2025-07-28 20:09:01
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⋆⁺☾ Tarot with Holly ☾⁺⋆ :
They can only meet you as deeply as they’ve met themselves!!!
2025-07-29 17:51:20
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thatoddluna :
Guys,leave AFTER you have communicated those needs clearly and they show no effort to compromise or find balance
2025-07-29 11:35:21
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🥰 Adorrrrraaaaa 🥰 :
That's right!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰
2025-07-29 13:05:58
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Blue Hive 🐝🐝 :
I don’t think it’s necessarily a priority issue. It’s normal to want to pour into/love-on someone you see a future with. It’s a reciprocity issue. Say what you need and if they value you, they will show up or ship out. In the meantime, continue to value your self as always. Drowning them? So it’s the lover/giver fault that the avoidant self indulged person can not reciprocate. The key is to always match their energy.
2025-07-29 04:06:51
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Freebandz :
Yeah no this doesn’t work for me
2025-07-31 19:29:20
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Ash! :
This feels like saying they dont love you how you need and instead of leaving and finding someone who can you need to lessen what you expect and what you give which is ultimately going to make you miserable…
2025-07-29 00:10:59
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bambi ❣️ :
literally what my last relationship taught me. i thought all i had to do was let them know
2025-07-28 17:10:24
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shon the luminary fairy🧚🏾♀️ :
So then in that relation- is the solution is to leave?
2025-07-28 17:14:20
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kelly :
My mantra lately with my partner has been “no pulling” whenever I feel myself BEGGING for something that I can and should be getting elsewhere and/or from myself.
2025-07-28 21:23:35
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courtney :
PLEASE elaborate on ‘it is drowning them & they can’t tell you that it is’ ☹️
2025-07-28 20:38:39
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Misslushmakeup :
So you’re just going to read me ok bet
2025-07-30 05:18:29
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Alex :
I think this just changed me on a molecular level. thank you thank you thank you
2025-07-28 08:15:41
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thevibeswritethemselves :
But what if it is your friends that you’re experiencing this with?? Because now what is the point of loving anyone?? (I’m Tiyad🙂)
2025-07-29 11:39:11
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Huli :
I agree with her but at the same time it also doesn't invalidate the fact that you will yearn for that. The question comes down to are you okay with not fully being loved how you want to be loved. you csn self love to infinity but love is also about consideration from both sides
2025-07-30 00:01:18
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maryajosephina :
dont call me out like this 😭
2025-07-29 11:49:44
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Queenie🧚🏽♀️✨️ :
omg i was just talking about this!!
2025-07-29 13:51:54
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Cyn - Rug tufting :
yes again i really learnt so much after my heart break in 2023😭😭😭
2025-07-29 09:36:50
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_mijala :
✨ GOLD ✨
2025-07-29 22:05:29
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Zimie :
I need to be able to save this please 🙏🏾
2025-07-29 10:41:27
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lululemon123 :
No no no where did you go, I want to hear more 😭
2025-07-29 09:18:43
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FromSageASMR💫 :
What about the case where they can give that love you're looking for to others? They love you, but asking for that seems like begging?
2025-07-28 21:33:04
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