@finding_loml: It bothers me so much how we can be rude towards and suspicious of our single friends particularly in relation to our romantic partners. It’s always justified somehow and that’s not okay to me. That narrative is so dangerous and yet so prevalent. We even laugh about it and make memes 🫠. Not okay! #myjourneytofindingtheloml #journeytofindinglove❤️ #journeytofindyou #myjourneytoyou #journeytofindlove #loml #tiktoksouthafrica #fyp #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp

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celestialchacha10
CelestialChacha :
MOST women only maintain friendships as placeholders until they've met Prince Charming. MOST ppl only care to form a community with others living similar lives as them. In their minds, your Singlehood becomes a nuisance for them to manage.
2025-07-28 20:30:48
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breeze_t1
Bridget T :
they dont trust their partners they know what they are capable of, they are also afraid to raise such topic to their partners, rather they disrespect their friends by saying such, ive have left such friendships.
2025-07-28 16:13:53
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mallowblack
Mallow :
Oh ma’am the distrust is misplaced.
2025-07-28 16:39:57
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katlehoyabadimo
KatlehoyaBadimo :
I will be a 100% honest. I will never ever trust any woman around my partner AGAIN because of experience. Yes I will not be hovering over my partner but trust & believe—no friend of mine is getting near my man🙂 That is just an important boundary I’ve learnt to set.
2025-07-31 16:44:34
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gift_947
Ziphozenkosi :
😭I thought I was the only one who was experiencing this, which is why I no longer want to be around married ppl they exhaust me.
2025-07-29 02:58:36
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noma_lu94
nomfundo_nnm :
That time the man is not even half my type 😩
2025-07-31 13:19:07
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healinhuns
𝙷𝚎𝚊𝚕𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝙷𝚞𝚗𝚜 :
I’ve never been so grateful I haven’t experienced this with my friends. Futhi if I’d ever get around such I’d rather we stop being friends and you go stay with your new society. Goodluck and congratulations. If you are weirded out about close proximity with your now family then we aren’t friends because you are saying I can’t ever be in close proximity with your family. So what friends are we? Outside friends? Ai bandla it’s weird. But I also hear it a lot from older woman who earn either newly weds to not bring their friends closer to their husbands, absolutely making the hubby an angel in any suds behaviour that would happen. Weird chats all around nje
2025-07-29 07:52:11
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bookamoso
Bookamoso :
I love that I don’t have this POV about my friends. My single friends are literally welcome to hang with us and we run together with Love. Sometimes even without me and I’m cool shem. We don’t own people here please. Those people aren’t friends who are suspicious of their single friends eeuw
2025-07-30 11:19:41
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mpho_nk
Mpho N :
Yoh!!! Thank you for bringing this up, had this chat with colleagues and I was telling them that my married friends are very secure in their marriages and trust their partners but also trust me so these weird suspicions don’t exist in our world and apparently that’s weird and shouldn’t be the norm. I was flabbergasted because what sort of friends do you guys have??? 😕
2025-07-29 09:27:11
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thespoggcim
Teddy :
Abanye bazozenza amaVictim kuleVideo yalo sisi kanti vele bayawafuna and bawaqedile amadoda abantu🥺🥺🤣🤣Women through out history have proven to be extreme backstabbers mase befuna indoda🤞
2025-07-29 07:33:38
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loveindz
LoveIndz :
Hey gorgeous 😍 Valid point ... our married friends distance themselves from us for no reason.. 🥴
2025-07-29 15:46:05
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mother_porcupine
Manoko. :
Omg chomee yesss!!! I hate it so much coz married friends treat us like second class citizens 😂✋🏽
2025-07-29 02:18:04
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rina_yhe
Rinae ❤️ :
they don't trust their partners 😭😭😂😂😂
2025-07-29 14:46:47
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beenkies09
Bee 🐝 :
It’s because bona self they don’t trust theies friends. It’s also insecurity . It’s sooo weird and there’s deep rooted issues there .
2025-07-28 16:05:13
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youla_mk
Yo :
I would be so offended if my friend would be “suspicious” of me with their partner. Im afraid that friendship would end
2025-07-28 19:00:05
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neliwithani
Neli :
People get in relationships then look down on being single as if they weren't or as if it's some kind of achievement.
2025-07-29 04:02:57
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reabetswe.s0
Reabetswe S :
' I can't be friends with people that want my man.' is your man my type? who said he is my type? why do you think my self esteem is so low I would go for someone's man? to go is to see.
2025-07-29 13:51:09
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miss_bk3
Miss BK |UGC CREATOR 🌸 :
It’s pick me’s and women who have no confidence
2025-07-28 18:40:03
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ts01610194677
Makopano :
Crazy crazy thing to experience if you ask me! Ey.
2025-07-31 21:25:25
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_gladiatorinasui
_gladiatorinasui :
It’s because they know that their men will ask you out
2025-07-29 12:23:57
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tlotlo228
Rural _ndu :
It's because they are capable of doing the things they think you are going to do
2025-07-30 08:38:56
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lawry_mzila
Laura Mzila 💞 :
Oh sana we walk on egg shells shame it’s disturbing but sizothini being single seems to mean you cursed
2025-07-29 10:46:19
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engineerkea
Engineer Kea 🇿🇦 :
It’s a very weird insecurity I don’t understand it at all
2025-07-28 19:27:34
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