@juliaathomasss: Hopefully some of yall relate but def something that’s been on my mind a TON 🫠🫠 #college #collegestuggles #advice #collegeadvice #adviceforgirls #stuggles #expectations #bodyimage #umiami
Girl, it’s college. You’re going there to get a degree, not walk the runway. Trust me when I say that social media and what you see online is not always what it’s like in person, aka: not everyone is a model. Focus on your education and you’ll be fine.
2025-07-28 19:57:17
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l7aoaya29bnu :
name plz?
2025-07-29 19:51:41
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user226447 :
Bestie, it’s college? You should be worried about being the smartest, most locked in, getting your shit done. Literally no one cares except for you. But girlie, focus on getting that degree and doing the best you can. Employers won’t care about “skinny.”
2025-07-28 20:22:47
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leah :
2025 grad here! My first semester of college was online, literally was eating a bag of potato chips sitting on my first zoom class. College is entirely what you make of it! Social media tends to really hype up the idea of a college girl glow up and how amazing that first year is. I remember feeling this way but I can tell you it never mattered in the end. All you can do is what’s best for you 🫶🏻 wishing you luck!
2025-07-28 20:13:55
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dnldkdi :
I’m here to validate your feelings, going to a school with high beauty standards is so hard. It can get worse when you are there drinking more, late night eats ect. Please take care of yourself! Remember what your version of healthy is and let yourself enjoy freshman year while maintaining that, some girls will go to extremes either way and it’s all about how you FEEL best
2025-07-29 00:53:14
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Kacey :
Graduated ‘23 …It’s bc you’re going to meet new people and you want to give your best first impression! This is normal, youre just human :) you will find the right people no matter what!!
2025-07-28 20:17:36
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hollyn :
Yes girl I relate especially because I’m rushing and every girl is gonna be so gorg 😭 but like it’s really gonna be ok! Nobody cares truly
2025-07-28 22:12:09
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AnnieHailey :
Just wait til you start going out in your pjs, not every outing means dressing to the 9s
2025-07-29 15:52:54
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stephanie𐂅 :
You don't have to worry about your appearance at university! It's a big change, you'll find your footing eventually just don't worry about it and focus on your academics :) everything will work out with time, don't stress about it right now! Just enjoy where you are right now! University is for education first and foremost
2025-07-28 20:26:41
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Regan Vaccaro :
u r 18 your “best” was when you were a child…
2025-07-28 23:23:31
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user9958416178104 :
College is going to help you chill and relax. You’re giving Reese Witherspoon from the movie Election.
2025-07-29 07:45:43
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alana rafaela :
all of these comments hating are ridiculous miami beauty standards are INSANE and teenage girls are always so pressured to be beautiful. she has every right to feel this way like what?? remember to give yourself grace, and that you will always be your own biggest critic. i'm someone who is very dedicated to my studies but also feels this pressure to look perfect going into college
2025-07-29 21:09:13
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Courtney :
I know everyone is hating… but you remind me a lot of myself when I was your age, before life caught up with me, and I was unaware of my innocences. I hope life is kinder to you and your struggles are more gentle. Keep your spark 💕
2025-07-29 23:01:17
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wyluxe_collab8 :
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2025-07-29 20:24:31
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kaciwiens :
I felt this way too, but something to keep in mind is that at 18 your body still has sooo many changes to go through! My body changed so much in college and it will happen regardless of exercise/eating habits. You’re still becoming a woman so give yourself some room to accept those physical changes ❤️
2025-07-29 00:09:04
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kmack1421 :
You are really just finding things to stress about.
2025-07-28 20:32:23
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Sarah :
You can stop this obsession of looks now! You’re 18. Healthy. Beautiful. Please focus on school you could wake up and do nothing with your hair, makeup, etc. and be gorgeous. Just focus on learning. 💕 And have fun but you’re there to get a degree.
2025-07-28 20:29:57
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bob :
This video is so 18yo coded im sorry
2025-07-29 01:12:57
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ceo :
Don’t worry about it! With the party culture and dining hall food at UM everyone only looks good in the morning before drinking and the pool parties, that’s why we take pics first beforehand! Rarely are the photos we post in bikinis are actually at the function but before. By the end everyone is drenched in sweat and makeup is gone, just have fun and eat and drink and be merry!🧡💚 you’re gonna be fine and have sm fun
2025-07-28 20:24:00
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KDs_Burner_3.0 :
Average high school mindset
2025-07-29 09:51:04
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