Yep and they drain our energy in every single way then resent us the entire time. I’m opting out 🥰
2025-07-28 22:18:05
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Lizz :
The Will to Change by bell hooks should be required reading. Patriarchal systems hurt men too. Being forced to mutilate your emotional self in order to fit into the narrow definition of masculinity allowed under patriarchy is horrifying and deeply sad.
2025-07-29 15:10:53
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Just Jenna :
Left my man keeping relationship 2 months ago because I was the *unpaid* dog walker, PA, house keeper, therapist, appointment setter, chef, etc. I was tired
2025-07-28 22:09:19
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LizOnLocation :
Congrats on getting published and shining a light on this problem. It’s the reason I divorced and the last ditch marriage counselor basically said this is really common and if my ex wanted a chance he would have to dramatically change his ways. That would require effort.
2025-07-29 14:58:19
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hkl8181 :
Wow! Congrats on the article
2025-07-28 21:17:04
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ash :
lol I just read that like 10 minutes ago and here you are
2025-07-29 16:11:53
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Meg :
You are incredible! Love you and your bf’s willingness to talk about hard to talk about things that we can all benefit from actually talking about
2025-07-29 15:05:29
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Midlife Molly :
This is iconic
2025-07-29 02:06:11
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Recoveringfromdoxx aka Edith :
This is amazing!!! Thank you for explaining this
2025-07-28 21:24:41
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sk2024 :
Very true also congratulations on being published
2025-07-29 12:39:40
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Aimie :
Congrats! So on point!
2025-07-29 02:36:07
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LaureninTexas :
Read it! Congrats!
2025-07-29 14:24:22
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Gabby Michelle :
Look at you starting these convos !! 🔥🔥
2025-07-29 02:50:04
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tiktokdnie :
Love this. Go girl.
2025-07-28 23:50:55
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m :
This is amazing, nice job 👏
2025-07-29 01:47:43
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MC :
Congrats!!!!
2025-07-28 22:51:54
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Mallie :
They were so interested in you they couldn’t spell your name correctly. 😂😂😂 What a world.
2025-07-29 02:43:42
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ReboundKings :
Nah I just went overseas and lived happily ever after ❤️
2025-07-28 22:52:34
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jamielee19818 :
the best way to put it is that men are babies toddler been with my other half that we are not married we have been together 23 years and I have a 17year-old son . and now I have to make an appointment he's in the process of looking for a job so sometimes I have to drive them to interviews if it's downtown then there's no parking cuz he gets frustrated overwhelmed and then my son that's 17 gives me the side eye and looks at me like really Mom and I look at him I said eventually you're going to be the same way when you find that love one women never get a day off they work 24/7
2025-07-29 22:50:47
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Lilly :
I was the man keeper in my ten year marriage but i wished my ex had his friends circle. Tagging along with me with my girlfriends or feeling felt out if I went out with them was tedious for me
2025-07-29 17:43:03
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Elizabeth :
Ugh 😩 this is one of the many reasons I’m single. It’s too much to hold. Men either need therapy and/or to change their interpersonal dynamics with friends. It’ll hopefully take a drastic turn by the next generation. But GENX, and Millennials seem screwed.
2025-07-28 23:25:02
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