Me not drinking matcha because my manly instinct told me not to
2025-07-28 21:16:08
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kati :
most of the time, men aren’t trying to impress women, they’re performing for other men. for male approval. for validation from the “brotherhood.” it’s a constant competition to prove who’s more dominant, more desirable, more emotionless, more in control. and the moment a man tries to step out of it, be tender, be honest, be different, he risks being criticized by his own. that’s the cage of PATRIARCHY. just be yourself, yall. authenticity is the most attractive and amazing thing someone to have. ITS TIME. TO NERD. OUT.
2025-07-30 23:19:47
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NateWheeler :
Been listening to laufey for three years and suddenly I’m fake and trying to manipulate women
2025-07-29 18:39:24
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yz.Jim- :
What does performative mean
2025-07-28 21:21:44
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B.W :
Matcha underhated
2025-07-28 21:14:13
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Jayden✝️🇨🇦 :
Yep lemme just read books down the escalator with my matcha and tote bag thats a totally normal thing everyone does
2025-07-29 12:58:29
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BKT :
where's the griffin method 2.0🥀🥀
2025-07-28 23:12:15
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Jomeier :
Hey ily and ur always right
2025-07-28 21:48:41
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。 :
But it gets to a point sometimes 😭🙏
2025-07-28 21:15:36
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Julio Hernan Tapia :
“Men listening to laufey is so performative” Ah yes bc I listened to 15k hours of laufey last year for attention 🥀💔
2025-07-29 18:48:24
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Shelby 🦆 :
Yes, what is with the stereotype that men drink black coffee?? And also when I’m wearing jeans, my car keys have a carabiner clip on them so I’ll just clip it to my belt loop because it looks weird in my pocket and I don’t wanna carry it
2025-07-29 14:23:59
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CreekStar :
Cooking with this one
2025-07-30 06:02:36
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Breezy :
News flash: everyone performs.
2025-07-30 21:38:53
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Red :
“Performative” is just the same as “poser” 💔
2025-07-31 06:40:06
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lsyst3 :
People want to dismantle gender roles, but then when they do something against their gender role they get called proformative. Especially if they aren’t conventionally attractive 🥀
2025-07-29 00:54:27
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Kevin(Ares' version)🍉🏛🫒 :
I think it's the raise of conservatism
2025-07-29 14:45:16
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Denial 🐙 :
omds the goat listens to laufey 🔋🌹❤️🩹
2025-07-29 09:44:35
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K :
I think you're giving people too much credit. The internet is full of fakes trying to be something they aren't for views. There is not limit in which some people will go to get likes my guy. Everyone on here is performative.
2025-07-29 11:53:27
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Somewhat Mad :
I would say that a lot of things people do are performative. Sometimes a person is performing to the point of almost being a caricature of the vibe they’re trying to give off. I think that’s the point at which people will start calling you out for being “performative”
2025-07-29 18:22:17
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Ethan🧌 :
no griffin method 2.0😭✌️
2025-07-28 21:31:16
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Alaa🇸🇩🏴🏳️ :
Unc I freak with your music keep going
2025-07-30 07:15:33
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nathanformeee :
REEEAALLLLL bc im scared to read in public now 😭 but also there are still “pick mes” for attention but not for gender validation just bc they want to impress the ppl whose opinions they care ab
2025-07-29 21:31:57
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Arok :
Is reading Halo : the fall of reach in public performative or ? 😭
2025-07-29 19:24:20
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