Ladies, you have to find someone who aligns with you, as you are but in order to find that, you have to be you and the person who loves you for you, will find you, not you searching for it. You can be you and someone not want to change you because you. as you are, is what they like and want and love
2025-08-02 05:14:39
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mimi<3 :
yes. no longer yourself, just their girlfriend
2025-07-29 21:53:35
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shabaz mugul :
I'm telling you, book called Make Her Your Pet by Helena Averton is on another level. You HAVE to experience it. It will change your life.
2025-08-01 08:27:09
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milanisolar🫀 :
i’m afraid of overextending myself - of self-abandoning for someone who won’t know how to hold it
2025-07-29 20:24:53
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Chunky :
the timing of this is crazy
2025-07-29 19:17:20
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EIDEN ⛥ :
and instead of being known as "you", others view you as [name]'s partner. You're nothing more than just their partner and that makes someone feel so incredibly invisible.
2025-07-29 18:37:08
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dustin QTP :
it’s hard to make the distinction if you find something interesting just because your partner likes it or if you actually like it and I think it takes a lot of self reflection and reassurance to really know what you like. great skit as always
2025-07-29 16:55:32
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Momo :
Validation station!
2025-07-29 16:44:37
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Alex :
What women mean is that they don't wanna be accessories
2025-07-31 04:16:32
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kajetan1234 :
what's the song in the background?
2025-07-30 08:15:53
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𝓮𝓵𝔂 :
I'll start to mirror them, be so dependent, attached, adapt their hobbies and mannerisms, the way they talk? think? I think until now, I'm having difficulty knowing who I am just like how I don't know what my favorite color is... so I'm afraid that I'll be even further from knowing if I get into a relationship...
2025-08-01 10:20:37
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Madlydivine :
That’s most definitely a skill issue
2025-07-29 17:06:43
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spidy-man :
"hey you're ____'s girlfriend right?" no I'm me. yes I'm their girlfriend, but that's not all I am
2025-07-30 21:48:19
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sea.lr :
“When does we end and me start”
2025-07-29 19:47:57
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fluffyraprot :
how is it a skill issue im having a big disconnect like where is it 😭
2025-07-29 18:56:27
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▫️ marshmallow ▫️ :
if this helps i was told this is common for people with boarderline personality disorder 😅 (i have bpd)
2025-08-01 18:48:43
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Kdc_ 76 :
Soooo...she needs to work on herself first before entering into any relationship. Which would be good for her and keep the guy she dates from being accused of being "toxic" when they break up.
2025-07-30 19:20:22
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Devo :
i feel like you need a balance of changing for someone you like bc you want to and keeping your individuality
2025-07-29 17:15:47
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🦋Eunoia🦋 :
Ohhhh so yall are reading my diary now
2025-07-30 12:19:22
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Jenn :
I’ve seen so many people change when in a relationship. Ive never been in one but I hope that’s not me. Ever.
2025-07-30 02:15:13
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اليازية ⚜️ :
I guess there is some sort of balance. You don’t lose your identity by loving things if someone already left it’s just that all it needs is just appreciation or interest like let it be something interesting but not you.
2025-07-29 20:27:42
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bawls my bro :
You see, i used to see myself this way too- hearing my partner's friends talk about me as "so and so's gf" but, ive come to realize i find myself in that. that is me. thats my title, and i feel if youre truly comfortable, you would like to be known as someone who has your partner. its important to remember its just a different label to describe you informally. people who dont know others might say "this guy's friend" because they dont know anything about them. but if you keep hold of who and what you want for yourself and what you wish for the future- stand firm in your ability to see if it isnt going that way, reject that if it is, and remember that relationships are long-term part-time jobs. you think about it while youre away, and maybe you do things for them while youre away, but its important you enjoy 'self time' too. let yourself have desires outside of people and perspectives. let yourself find peace in nature or in something not tainted by what someone else will think. do it because it instills joy in you. and when you do that, you will have yourself. and not just be, a relationship. ❤️
2025-07-31 00:48:55
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chim :
Sagittarius coded
2025-08-01 15:28:16
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