I used to enmeshed with my step father but now that hes out of all of our lives and I don't talk to him anymore my sister (who was the scapegoat) now hates me. it often feel like shes taking the anger and resentment she feel for him and taking it out on me.
2025-07-31 15:41:55
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🩵 Sea swim 🩵 :
my sisters pay off is she gets unlimited access to their time, money and energy.
2025-07-29 17:24:10
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jordonmorgan75 :
Same with my brother, I don't see him ever coming to the light
2025-07-31 17:53:03
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Misti Mickelson Albright :
It’s for their money
2025-08-01 00:57:17
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A Remotis :
Money plays a big role in
2025-07-29 23:57:05
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Annemarie :
Yeah my brother and sister are close to my abusive dad when he literally abused them?! They do it for the money/ a paid off car/ etc… like I don’t understand how that’s enough to forgive him and keep him in their life?!
2025-07-31 19:26:35
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Rosie :
I do it because my mom has no one else and I feel sorry for her. I don’t do it because I am expecting any gains from it. In fact, I will never accept any financial support from her.
2025-07-30 16:15:21
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ann💗 :
that’s what my sister does but she also abuses me with my mom :)
2025-07-29 22:25:17
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emansadia123 :
nah why the siblings who hurt the parent more gets more love from the parent
2025-07-31 18:03:40
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Beau_Cassia33 :
They do it for money. The Golden Child understands the pros & cons for them - they do not care about you, the Scapegoat.
2025-07-29 20:17:28
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Garden Variety Hiker :
It's money. They get the inheritance. But there's no money in the world that is worth continuing to endure that abuse, so joke's on them in the end. I have my freedom and you can't buy peace.
2025-07-30 14:58:22
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cait ♡ :
Yes I’m viewed as the “angry daughter with strict boundaries”, and my sibling coddles my parents to stay on their good side. It’s done a lot of damage to our relationship 😢
2025-07-29 21:30:35
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wahabegum :
If your parents make you the scapegoat, that's all you'll ever be to your siblings too
2025-07-30 13:45:34
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ai215 :
there’s another reason- for me- it was that when my mom said she was sorry i really wanted it to be true. i wanted her to experience what unconditional love was for most likely her first time in her life. i thought maybe if i could show her that she was worthy of love no matter she wouldn’t keep searching for love and validation in abusive men, in her financial success. i was wrong and i learned that lesson. but i didn’t need to be needed or the good daughter… i’ve always been the weird daughter the black sheep and in my family im proud of that. but i did need to feel that my mom could be healthy and i thought it could start with showing her forgiveness support and love to lead by example and i really was so wrong
2025-07-31 16:31:35
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Carla Blame :
Girl never stop talking, please🩵
2025-07-30 21:50:20
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Mfamilyworld :
✨Or just choose to forgive in order to be free ✨
2025-07-31 15:29:33
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Lili :
I can guarantee my brother does not fear my parents at all. He was and is the golden child since day one. They never laid one hand on him, and I was nothing but ab&sed since day one. I’m 42 and he’s 48 and he’s still the loved one and gets all the support he needs. I had no choice but to go no contact back in 2017.
2025-07-31 16:42:31
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Roxie Magana :
Fernando Felix Torrero
2025-08-01 01:54:27
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HalfBakedScubaGirl :
I used to be that sibling (in a family with 9 kids). Then I woke up to the abuse. Now I'm the second scapegoat of the family. I only was doing what I thought I had to to survive, until one day I realized how yucky it all was. Now none of my family talk to me anymore bc I went no contact with my parents.
2025-07-31 19:40:33
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Southern Hell :
I’ve managed to stay close to my golden child younger sister, but her whole life is a performance. She can’t even fathom trust and true intimacy. She knows not to discuss her and our mother’s relationship with me. She also doesn’t judge me for going no contact and I don’t blame her for not being able to. Sometimes I ask her how our mother is doing. I am the villain in our mother’s story
2025-07-30 02:25:28
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laurenbridle445 :
After I stopped talking to my mum, she did everything she could to turn my brother against me and she was successfully. Everyday I hate that woman more and more.
2025-07-30 14:16:52
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ᅠᅠᅠ :
Because they get something out of it, a free place to live, someone to pay their bills etc
2025-07-29 19:15:04
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Jasmarie003 :
This is healing something in me!
2025-07-31 17:03:28
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Caroline :
My brother getting 40k wedding from her even though he recognizes all the things she did and has acknowledged that she was in the wrong
2025-07-31 14:46:30
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thissideofwednesday :
It’s difficult because my youngest sister is 7 years younger and got a different experience. Different dad. I’m the villain in her story and I’ve had to just walk away.
2025-07-31 19:52:27
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