@joyandjournal: Four year olds are TESTY, however, I have found that just being incredibly consistent with boundaries and upholding them does decrease the amount of negative behaviors that &&&& fueling connection/having positive rewards for good behavior, like today I had him clean up all of his toys and once everything was put away and he was able to calm down and have a good attitude. He was able to use his bounce house! #parenting #gentleparenting