@earthisnotmyhome: Being victimized doesn’t absolve you of accountability. At this point it’s an excuse as old as time. #blackcommunity #BlackTikTok #blackmen #blackwomen #misogyny

Grxve!Diggxr :

This perspective 🗣️

stop.r3sisting :

this makes a lot of sense

Shambles :

rents due

wallahigi :

This is true but remember it goes both ways for black men and women.

Dilly :

Definitely depends but I agree. Certain black men fail to see the depth of hold patriarchal values have on each and every one of us in society. White women have the same issue. When you have such a view of an oppressor, it’s hard to see yourself in the same lens

🪷 :

THISSSS I saw a creator call out another black male creator for his misogyny and then he immediately stitches the video pointing out the fact that he’s black thinking it absolves him from his misogyny.😭

STONO’s REVENGE 🖤❤️ :

Why everytime yall talk about this , yall never give any tangibles how we benefit from patriarchy

Luh Quannie :

I agree. This applies to victims in general

D J357 :

Genuine question what benefits do we be get and how do we contribute

Horizontal flex :

I agree, victim mentality is a thing, question do you believe black women are exempt?

Meya :

Some of yall in the comments are proving her point and purposely missing what she is saying…..

lanis 🐝🇳🇬 :

You’re right and you came with such a soft approach and they’re still attacking you smh

jade :

EXACTLY

Q U O I :

H A S... They don't know US, or THEMSELVES,- at ALL... 😐...

Karson Camielle :

This.

user :

thank you!!!!

KING COLE🤴🏾 :

facts 🗣🗣

sephapxpjt0 :

Naw, it ain’t that deep lol. Just a upbringing of no accountability which originated from racism but that’s about it.

JoeyDKillmonger :

When exactly did we become part of the patriarchy issue? Was it immediately after slavery? How did that happen?

Adrienne :

💯💯💯💯

Blackbunni :

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Hyab :

👏👏👏

Ben Carter🇬🇧 :

Mook :

It’s the opposite, yall been victims of racism so long that you are unable to identify the source. So in turn yall resort to racism by hypercriminalizong black men because that’s all you’ve ever known.

𓆩 𝐀𝐳𝐫𝐚𝐞𝐥 𓆪 :

Women are more likely to have a victim mentality’s in comparison to their same race counterparts according to multiple studies.and how does being a man inherntly mean you’re apart of the patriarchy 😭that doesn’t even make sense,do you mean they uphold it?yea everyone does