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Stephanie Misamor172 :
I’m anxious attachment and I can assure you it takes a lot for me to walk away but when I do I never once look back no matter what.
2025-07-31 10:45:11
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lindwe_danflow :
I am anxious... may I never meet an avoidant again. it took more than a year to heal
2025-07-31 21:52:31
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Charlotte :
I left mine few days ago we were so in love well so I thought but I wanted commitment long term and he didn’t he was selfish manipulative and a narcissist and that’s not me just being bitter as I’ve no need to be but all he told me “all my ex’s have called me a narcissist”
2025-08-01 11:04:34
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Patricia Churchill :
Omg he’s avoidant. I. Anxious. I want to leave
2025-08-01 00:26:33
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emz_7_4 :
I’m secure attachment type. I will NEVER be in a relationship with another avoidant. I went from secure and healthy, to anxious, I’ve done the work and I’m happily back to being secure. Avoidants should have to stay single by law! They are unhealed immature children 😂
2025-07-31 14:14:39
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Hangry Marvin :
Once an anxious attachment leaves, they will never come back. Once they have detached, they physically cannot reattach. Their body emotionally won’t allow them to. Even if they wanted to, they physically can’t. So once the anxious leaves, you will never be able to get them back.
2025-07-31 18:08:01
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Murderdronesuzifan💜 :
as a former anxiously attached person, I remember all those times when I could really feel myself detaching to my avoidant ex each time I felt that I remember the fear of knowing that once I leave I could feel like it would be the end. Idk if it's the same with everyone. But eventually I gave in to what my gut is telling me to. Finally let go. There was no saving a relationship with an avoidant. The amount of work it takes, even as a secured person isn't just worth your sanity. They are essentially selfish people no matter how much you try to justify why they became the way they are. In the end, they will and always choose themselves, even at your expense. They live a very sad and lonely existence despite of how victorious they present themselves in the world. It's a mask and anybody who's ever been hurt by one could see through it.
2025-08-01 08:56:56
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🌙✨ :
At least the anxious person has the capacity and want to try to repair, and doesn’t just pretend the issues or their partner doesn’t exist…
2025-07-31 12:57:06
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Bruhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh :
Yet the avoidant always finds someone new
2025-08-01 10:31:19
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nabirkv :
Aight man, timing is WILD. 😭 A random anxious guy got attached to me after talk for a day, yesterday was our 5th day talking, he even planned that we will live together in the future and cook for me in the morning blah blah blah he told me that he won’t give up when I wven tried to push him away from me on the 3rd day since I wanted to save him from myself. He’s controlling and wants me to block my every guy friend (irl ones) and we aren’t even together. 😭 idk man he just said goodbye and that he’ll always love me, I knew that we wouldn’t even last a week LOL.
2025-07-31 17:36:06
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Rossan Marie :
I'm getting tired of loving him and receiving no kind of affection in return, I'm about to start looking for a new boyfriend to replace it
2025-07-31 12:50:28
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Lin :
I’m anxious dealing with an avoidant :/
2025-08-01 02:38:37
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Sagg71 :
I am anxious ( trauma from my childhood) my ex partner is avoidant . I love him (still deeply) but it made mi feel crazy and unsafe I tried to fix our friendship but he didn’t see problem sorry I was the problem so in the end I left I got tired trying I didn’t see any future as he didn’t come half way even if he promised
2025-07-31 22:54:25
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ロゼル :
It’s really hard to be the anxious one in the relationship.
2025-07-31 11:33:13
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MaYa👸🏽 :
But I'm still holding on
2025-07-31 08:51:14
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Ryne Lageschulte :
it sounds like avoidants need to mature emotionally and grow up
2025-07-31 23:19:08
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Callie Rae :
I recognized these issues and begged for a conversation, to sit down and sort through these things. Instead he ignored me for a week and any attempt I made was met with silence or something or told something that made almost no sense. I decided the best thing for the both of us was to walk away so we can focus on ourselves instead.
2025-07-31 12:07:52
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Bun Buns :
Avoidants don’t “ deal with problems differently” they DON’T deal with them at all. Ever. Period.
2025-08-01 05:47:39
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xyz :
these videos talk about circumstances when you’re in a relationship, my avoidance is so severe i’ve never been in one
2025-07-31 12:20:21
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Darkrebel :
I used to be anxious now I'm just mad the avoidant can't own up to her mistakes . she tells me to grow up
2025-07-31 17:23:53
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Sheesh_Reese :
Avoidants need to be alone
2025-08-01 02:18:03
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elly :
honestly i started as secure but the avoidant one did such awful things to me 💀 lying, cheating, etc and it made me become anxious
2025-08-01 04:47:39
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Emre Ballı :
Do not make a relationship with avoided type people
2025-07-31 20:17:01
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Jess Baker :
Avoidants can't feel empathy.
2025-07-31 22:21:28
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Delusional Laudez :
Who is aggressive and who is passive? Who communicates and who doesn’t?
2025-07-31 11:53:50
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