@vanessaandxander: Why was it so easy for my partners? Why did he get all the fun and I got nothing? Trust me, I get it. I know how frustrating it is to feel left out, stuck, and wondering if something’s wrong with you. 😩 Even writing this now, I can still feel traces of that shame and embarrassment. I almost deleted this caption. 😬 But I hit a breaking point. I wanted to enjoy secs and actually finish. And guess what? I did. 🙌 It wasn’t magic. It took trial and error, patience, communication, and a lot of unlearning. But I got there. Pleasure. Connection. Confidence. And yes… real 0rg@$ms. 💥

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