I know a lot of lesbian spaces aren’t always accepting but I would like to remind everyone that as a whole lesbians are our most supportive demographic after other trans people
2025-08-02 17:20:13
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RinNosetti 🏳️⚧️ :
It doesn't help that a lot of lesbian spaces are hostile towards trans women. I think that's why t4t is so prominent, we know it's safe and there's no way someone can strip us of our queerness.
2025-08-01 13:50:19
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aggie 💔 :
Your voice is so nice
2025-08-06 00:43:45
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Mia The Metal Dragon :
ok but fr tho, how do i sound like you 😭
2025-08-01 08:39:33
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RoRoRoUrBoat :
I hope for change for the benefit of my trans sisters. I will ALWAYS be behind y'all!!
2025-08-04 14:49:25
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katie 🏳️⚧️ ヾ(=`ω´=)ノ” :
being trans lesbian is tough out here, even in metropolitan areas 🥲
2025-08-01 23:06:51
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Allison :
I've never had an original experience 😭😭
2025-08-01 04:06:17
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DYANA :
So true!! It set me back for so long to start transitioning. Its amazing that I don’t need anything from MEN but also it hurts their feelings so it makes it extra challenging to be accepted. They (patriarchy) even question cis lesbians so imagine trans lesbians
2025-08-03 21:10:07
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Kara :
for me, the way I experienced attraction to women never gelled with the way straight men described their attraction to women, it always matched the experiences of my lesbian friends
2025-08-05 15:12:47
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Aiden Smith :
You do you and live your best life your way.
2025-08-01 04:04:45
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Erika Florentin :
I’m trans lesbian as well and it is challenging. My dating life has been approximately zero since coming out. I do also recognize the negative stereotype of trans lesbians as you mention. However, I also feel so free that I’m neither a man nor into men. I could in principle live my life happily without men. That is pretty nice😊
2025-08-04 16:16:56
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imogen 🏳️⚧️ :
god a lot of the thing you said hit really close to home ,, also i dunno if i am still at the other end of this hut like boys pretty sometimes, (like does this validate my womanhood yes), but trying to separate that from like what is Real sexuality is hard ,
2025-08-03 07:44:33
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SilkyStella✨️🦋🎀🥑🥥🫐☁️ :
And the worst is that i and others met so many toxic trans lesbians and went to trans lesbians spaces just to feel predated. 😪 Yes, places where they recognize my womanhood... just to immediately switch to hostility and mockery when i refuse their advances. I've been using bisexual just to dissociate from the stigma, only recently re-learning to embrace my identity.
2025-08-02 15:04:25
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Angel Gabi :
same
2025-08-04 22:28:01
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Thorunn🏳️⚧️ :
I identified as bi a few years before realizing I was trans. Recently though I've come to the realization I don't really want to be with cis men and there is a certain amount of masculinization for trans men that is too much for me to be attracted to them. I'm still trying to figure out if I'm a lesbian though or just heavily sapphic bisexual.
2025-08-01 09:59:52
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lesserspottedjewels :
I had the opposite experience. My disdain for how men treated me consolidated by romantic relationships with women. As Ive progressed through my transition I started to become more comfortable in myself as a woman and thus made finding men attractive less egregious
2025-08-03 06:00:47
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Juniper_w :
I fully relate, I identified as a gay man and almost married a man who then would offer to pay for my transition. I ended up leaving him and realising once I started transitioning at my own pace I was doing that to feel more feminine by proxy. I realised I was a lesbian and it’s been slow healing and I’ve been very lucky but that shame kept me in the closet for a long time.
2025-08-02 22:48:50
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amity_amabilis 🇮🇱✡️🇵🇸 :
I also went through the bisexual stage before identifying as a gay trans!
2025-08-06 16:55:14
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Lucy/Stevie ♡ :
I get this so much. Also agp terminology still being so prevalent really affected me accepting my identity as a trans lesbian. Being told I was just a man fetishizing women kept me in the closet for so long. It can feel shameful from within the queer community too.
2025-08-03 17:31:02
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Lydia.829🏳️⚧️ :
I’ve always made jokes about being in a lesbian relationship with my wife before we got married and before I came out and I’m only ever going to be attracted to her so I love the lesbian lable. Our relationship was never cis or straight
2025-08-01 18:14:25
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Jenna :
Girl. I’ve been thinking about this for MONTHS. Thank you for saying this. I’ve been teetering on that bi/lesbian line.
2025-08-01 13:03:01
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lucciola :
this is such a interesting perspective, i never thought of it like this
2025-08-04 23:08:32
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gart :
haven’t seen u in a while the bangs r fire twin
2025-08-01 09:31:05
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Hard Candy :
Actually kind of the same. I was a bi boy pretrans with a preference for men. Now that I’ve been on hormones for 6 months I’ve noticed that I’m waaay more into women. It might be that I don’t like straight men. My men dating options are in the drain lol
2025-08-01 21:02:31
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