@avi.murguia.kelley: Avi. (ah-vee) Avery/Vi It's been so fucking hard to settle on a name my whole life. And, even though I've been making progress with my Fractals and giving them space to exist, I still have to present as one person in the world. This has made it extremely difficult to introduce myself, say my name, be confident in what people call me... I've felt alone, not relating to my name.. Everyone around me already had theirs, and it felt like a club I couldn't get into. Everyone has a name... Why couldn't I stick to just one? Because we are many. I needed something that encompassed all my parts, all of me, my identities, and something new that we can relate to.. That feels familiar enough. Something that we can see myself as, that we can feel confident in public that all of our parts are held within, and as we meet people, we know we are one. Working on integration, it's been becoming easier to work together, which means we're sailing easier on our pirate ship. Still have a loooong journey to go across the dangerous seas of trauma, but at least we're heading in the right direction. Avi... Like.... An "aha". Like a name for our body. And our soul. And it feels right, because when my wife says it... I feel all of us smile. I'm sorry for confusing everyone on what to call me. It's always a process to go by something new. But I appreciate everyone's acceptance and love through all of our pivots. #TRANSGENDER #did #MentalHealth #fyp
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Friday 01 August 2025 22:18:19 GMT
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🍉 Angel-Lea 🍉 :
this actually made me well up a bit. we struggle with our name too, and also feel bad about how many name changes we have put others through. we still struggle with what to call ourselves Collectively and have been waiting for that aha moment.
2025-08-03 02:15:23
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Shad0w Blitz :
i like that name...been thinking of changing mine...but...i cant find it...i feel like i need help....
2025-08-02 23:25:41
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💜🖤ladyravynbookdragon💜🖤 :
love it and it fits you. congrats friend
2025-08-02 18:06:47
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🏳️⚧️Quinn🏳️⚧️ :
Hello Avi 😊 the idea of a collective name isn't a bad one....
2025-08-03 01:03:07
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Ryley Rene (ItsNotAnExcuse) :
Why do you have to pick one? Can’t we move them as we go on our journey. I mean people go from child, sibling, parent to grandparent. Changing their title and their essence as they progress. Why can’t you give yourself permission to do the same thing?
2025-08-01 23:33:58
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Lucky :
And we love all of you, for all that you are.
2025-08-02 17:38:21
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TheChevyDevil :
Avi… it’s beautiful. Thank you for sharing 🖤
2025-08-02 17:07:43
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DK Green (aka dkleather) :
love every incarnation of truth. welcome and congrats🙏
2025-08-02 00:21:24
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Cannabliss37 :
Hello Avi 👋 🫂
2025-08-02 20:43:05
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rosemariehendricks :
Avi in ancient times you were revered and people would have came to you for help spiritual guidance healing raise yourself up loved one do not forget where you came from ❤️
2025-08-02 03:47:13
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SupernaturalTessa :
Hi, Avi! As someone who also has DID, I also chose my own name and it took AGES to find the right one to present ourselves as one with. You're doing amazing
2025-08-03 00:05:40
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Bärbel Kiepe :
you are welcome Avi , in love and Peace.. We are gods kids, we are all the same and have from one roots.
2025-08-02 20:59:38
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Mother Nightshade :
You're finding yourself. When my daughter (MtF) began her journey she went through several names. Each felt right for her in a moment but it took her time to find one that always felt like home. Like her, you're just finding home. 💜
2025-08-02 14:00:06
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🌙Micah🐾 :
Hi Avi, long time follower, this is fitting I feel. 💜
2025-08-02 03:00:52
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Caronda Bhan Croidhe 🖋️ :
Congrats!! It’s hard to find a name that grows with you when you’re more than a single person inside! You def don’t owe anybody an apology for discovering and rediscovering the ways to describe yourself or your system ^^ I had the same problem (and often still do). Shine on in every embodiment! 🔥🤘🏻
2025-08-01 22:28:52
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Jillian 🇨🇦 🏳️🌈 :
It’s perfect, it suits you so well 💙💜
2025-08-02 15:49:12
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🦇Fangs🦇 :
It's nice to meet you, Avi. I'm so happy for you. 😊
2025-08-01 23:59:27
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just Nova :
is it just me or you really like REALLY remind of Chester Bennington /pos
2025-08-01 22:56:06
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Jenny Wheeler :
Avi, that’s a beautiful and handsome name my friend. It’s a pleasure to meet you. 🥰
2025-08-02 11:14:20
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Stefanie :
Hi Avi, nice to meet you
2025-08-01 23:19:08
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💜🩶🤍Tabitha 🏳️🌈 :
It's amazing to meet you Avi! I have watched your journey for some time now and I think Avi fits great! 💜🤟
2025-08-02 09:48:01
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Rorsch :
Hey Avi, good to see ya, popped in every now and again seeing different eras and had my jaw drop each and every time, watching you find YOU… words fail me, you’re just that awesome 🫡
2025-08-02 01:20:12
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Laylascrazylife13 :
I love that name! Nice to re meet you Avi 🥰
2025-08-02 05:06:46
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Lollie McLean :
great to meet you Avi 😀
2025-08-01 22:54:58
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betty :
a rose by any name would smell as sweet 🌹😉 🖤
2025-08-02 07:48:38
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